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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently my ex made contact with me. We broke up on good terms, and I still considered him a friend, so thought nothing of it. We always talked every now and then. This time, things are different. We spend most nights talking either on the phone, texting or on facebook until early in the morning. We ended up together on a night out recently, and have been meeting up regularly since. When we are together, it is like we are a couple again. We have so much fun together. I feel so comfortable around him, and he makes me so happy. The problem is how hot and cold he is. Some days he is amazing, the perfect guy almost. Other days I feel like I'm annoying him if I even try to talk to him. He also isn't very reliable. He was mean't to come on a night out with my friends and I the other week, but cancelled at the VERY last minute, with no valid reason as to why. I was so upset and put out my night after that was awful. I really wanted him to be there.I want him to be straight up with me. I want to know where I stand. I am falling for him again, I can't seem to say no to him, because he hasn't actually done anything wrong, but I feel like this relationship is just not good for me. I feel, only sometimes, he is just using me for sex. Am I wasting my time? And how do I walk away to a guy that makes me so happy most of the time? I am so frustrated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both very much for replying. Both of you made very good points, especially you Bernard. You helped put things in perspective for me, I'm not going to let myself be used up.
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