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writes:I met ths guy to months ago and have fallen head over heals for him. I think he likes me too. But...... A couple of days ago I told him I needed to fall back and focus on me. Soooo today I texted him, he responded back so then I texted him and told him i miss hearing his voice. He responded back by saying "well I gave you what you asked for. Now you have it leave me alone"...Help
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reader, Odds +, writes (4 August 2011):
 He's probably upset because "Time to focus on me" is often girl-code for "I'm about to cheat on or break up with you." In all likelihood he cares about you, but is mad and annoyed because he thinks you're toying with him.
Best bet is wait about two days, then go over to his house and say hi. Be affectionate and bubbly, and take him out somewhere for fun. If he brings up the alone time, tell him you were feeling burnt out and just needed a few days without doing anything (for honesty's sake, it's best if you haven't taken the time to go out drinking with girlfriends or anything). Now that you have some energy, you want to spend time with him.
In the future, when you need alone time, don't call or text ahead of time - just go do it, and be prepared to answer honestly if he asks about it.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Mixed signals much?
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