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Archived questions from: 11 August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He talks to his ex! I don't like or trust her. What should I do and should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend and they dated for 4 months. Last night, he was talking to her and after about 20 minutes he texted me back "sorry me and her(his ex-girlfriend) were talking and i forgot about you." I asked him, "wha...

I like my girlfriend's ex and she's very upset about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

11 August 2011 (M) - I'm 24, my girlfriend's 23. On a night out last Thursday we had a few drinks, some chips and generally had fun. She also ran into her ex, Joe(not his real name), who is a friend of hers. I got talking to him and was amazed at how much we ha...

Is it normal that guys forget their girlfriends when they are around their friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I don't understand sometimes what's up with my bf. Ok, we currently live together. During workdays, he gets to go home first and he always never fails to follow-up on me if I am on my way home or always ask me why I was late for only a few minutes ...

A good present for my 23 year old b/f?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Whats a great present to get my boyfriend for his birthday? Its my boyfriends birthday on Sunday and he will be 23. I am struggling to find a great gift for him. He put so much thought and effort into my birthday present so i feel under a lot of p...

Why does he say "its better to just be friends"?

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11 August 2011 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago, but we both happen to always be busy when the other isn't. But he has done I'd say 85% of the pursuing.. he has a stereotypical player trait around his lifestyle. but hey i am blonde, and we are not all stupid. That...

Why couldn't he just be honest? Why did he play games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - This guy contacted me through facebook during xmas and new year. Although I had seen him around town in nightclubs I had never noticed him otherwise. We communicated through FB for bout a month till we met up. We talked for several hours and he ...

He says hes too busy for anything "more" what does this really mean?

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11 August 2011 (F) - Ok so I met this guy several months back and we went on several dates, even traveled together. I felt we really connected and had a blast together. At this time he was just starting a new job and it does take him away for 2 weeks at a time. When we ...

I don't want to get hurt again -- help me with this potential relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

11 August 2011 (M) - It is long but it is interesting. Please give me 5 minutes. It is the 6th month in USA. I guess I have done good in the new country. Have a job, doing course work, have one best friend and know how to communicate effectively with people as I am i...

Am I being selfish in expecting him to come away for weekends without his elderly mother?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Hi there I could really use some advice here. I have just turned 40 with 2 grown up children. I was single up until 3 months ago when i met this nice man. To give a bit of his background, 3 years ago he split up with the mother of his child, at th...

Can I do anything...or should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriends mom has cancer and he has been different ever since, this I can understand. But he got more distant. And I got worried about him and started texting him to much at work because he was pretty much unable to reach any other way. He got ...

My boyfriend moved out, but he's still wearing the ring I gave him! What does this mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - hi i need help me and my boyfriend split up a few days ago and hes moved out i saw him today and he still has his ring on that i gacve him on our first valentines ady basically its a wedding ring, as he got me an engagement ring, plus he still has a ...

I love my boyfriend, but how do I deal with his race-conscious family? How do I get over their dislike of me?

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11 August 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've discussed moving in together, getting engaged and married, having kids and pets... The only problem is that his Mom and Sisters absolutely hate me. In the beginning I think it had to do with r...

I don't want to fall for an idiot again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Over a month ago I had a conversation with my then boyfriend, he told me that he didn't love me and later went on to kick me out of our rented house ( he stayed because i couldn't afford it on my own). He gave me a week and i just packed up and left ...

Is our relationship still salvageble at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I wrote a long thing a bit ago about my ex-boyfriend and our very sudden break up. We were perfect together and totally in love, but then he lost his job and had a total meltdown and we broke up. Coupled with that, he was also afraid/panicked about ...

How do I ask this guy for his cell number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Greetings, Yes, there is a guy in my workplace whom I've started to like a lot. I feel that he too he likes me. I would very much like to have his mobile number but I just can't find the courage to ask him. Can you give me some ideas how do I procee...

I am seeing my ex-grilfriend's younger sister, ex threatning me, please help me !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me two years back for absolutely no reason. I was struggling to come with terms of that heartbreak. But for the last two months, I have been dating her younger sister who is 4 years younger than me and I found her more courageo...

Why does my friend act this way after a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - My best friend treats her rejection or endings with a guy in probably the most stupidest way! And i want to know why, even she said she doesn't know why she does it but it helps her in some way... which can't be good? When a guy has treated her ...

Why would a guy go back to a girl who dumped him when he had someone who wanted him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Why would a guy go back to a girl who dumped him and leave someone who's interested in him? My BF's best friend dated this girl for only two weeks when she decided she wasn't that interested in him. He was quite upset and we never heard the end of...

Am I being too hard on myself? What can I do to accept this situation I'm in?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

11 August 2011 (M) - I consider myself some who isn't dependant on having a relationship, but rather someone who is happier in a relationship. My ex girlfriend of 6 months is much the same as me, however, unlike me, she got involved in a new relationship just weeks ...

Tomorrow is my last chance with him, I need a plan fast!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - This week, I met a really gorgeous guy at a Radio Course. First moment we saw each other, we were definately examining the other's potential. Within just the first few hours, there was a connection, and we got along really well. We have lots in ...

Is he playing a game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy a month or so ago, and I really like him. We've gone on a few dates to the cinema and just spent days together, and we told each other one night that we both liked each other. But recently, his texts have become less and less each ...

I want to have someone to make out with, not have a serious relationship with! How do I tell him this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I have this friend who I hung out with a few times. I kind of knew he likes me because he hugs me, makes me compliments and stuff like that. Yesterday he asked me if I want to be with him and I told him I don't know, and I would like to take things ...

What is his deal? I have so many questions about his confusing behaviour!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I am so sorry this is long, but bare with me. please. I'm 21. My 'friend' is 24. Met each other at college. We were not in the same year (he was one year behind me in a program for students who needed extra help with their studies). The two of u...

Might I have a chance with something amazing? Or could he become clingy later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - Question first: Is he pathetic or will he grow clingy or might I genuinely have a chance at something spectacular? The situation: Been pretty good friends with a heavier-set guy for years now (I'm rather petite). At age 21, we had sex for the firs...

Girlfriend is not giving me straight answers about how many guys she's slept with or cheated on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i have only been offiecially together for two months but had a thing for about 4 - 5 months now. she asked me how many people i'd slept with, i told her honestly then asked her the same question, the first answer i got back was ...

How rational is my boyfriend's anger towards his room mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I feel really ill and responsible for something terrible. I have been dating someone on and off for about a year and a half. He has a roommate that has been his friend since he was four years old. Just incidentally from being at his house so often I ...

Every time I have sex with my new boyfriend, I can't help but cry because I still think of my ex...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I've been going out with a classmate of mine for about 2 months now, and we've been sexually active lately. Now, a couple months ago I had a terrible breakup with my ex for 2 years. I've known my ex longer than that because we were originally best ...

Should I see a future with this guy, or break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - We've been going out for 2 years and 1 month already but he'll be going to college in 3 days while I still need 2 more years of high school. He says he won't cheat on me because he loves me, and he could if he wanted to because he's had many chances ...

Is my boyfriend afraid of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

11 August 2011 (F) - I think my boyfriend is afraid of love. He will be so into me for a few days, and just during the height of things he will start acting funny. One day he will say he loves me, the next he will say he doesn't know. Whenever I start to get really ...