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writes:hi im 14 years old almost 15,ive been talking to this guy since febuary and we have had a few ups and downs and since about august we have been really really cloase,we talk on the phone everynight we text eachother everyday,we have told eachother were in love with eachother and we want to be together for the rest of our lives,theres only one problem he has a gf hes been dateing her for 2 weeks i was told he was going to break up with her so we could go out but he wanted to wait till after homcoming and his homcoming was 10 days ago. ik i should probley say goodbye but deep down i cant,i cry all the time i just dont know what to do. im in love with him and i dont understand why if hes in love with me why he hasnt braken up with his gf. i really need your help.should i say goodbye or wait it out and see what happens?
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reader, peacejmmk +, writes (10 October 2010):
peacejmmk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionphoebe,ive thought about what you have said a hundered and one times. what makes me belive that im the only one or if im just a hold girl. i really have been thinking and im deffinatly for sure i need to let this guy go there a pleaty of people out there who can treat me better. thanks for the help it help me alott
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 I wouldn't hang around. Think of all the lovely, romantic things he's said to you... while he's had a girlfriend. So if you go out with him, what makes you think after a few weeks he's not going to be holding some other girl and saying the exact same things to her?
His poor girlfriend! Think about it, she's so happy in this new relationship, and then the guy takes her to homecoming and it's wonderful. They're so happy together and he tells her she's amazing.. then he breaks up with her for this other girl he's been flirting with before and during their time together? Ouch!
If it were me, I'd wait a while, let him break up with his girlfriend, tell her what an idiot he is so he can't go crawling back to either of you. Serves him right for trying to play the field.
And what a mean thing to do to you! Hinting at a relationship, "wanting to spend the rest of our lives together" and then he goes out with another girl? Who does that?
Ditch him for someone better, you deserve so much better then his guy.
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