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What we did felt like more than "just friends," but he has a girlfriend!

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Question - (30 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I went on a school trip for 12 days recently. I ended getting to be really close friends with a guy I have fancied for a couple of months. On the night I was slightly tipsy and we ended up cuddled on the sofa but were interupted.

Then, on the plane home, I sat next to him and got scared of the turbulance. He started by just rubbing my arm to comfort me. But as the turbulance got worse things became more intimate. He was stroking my arms and i was stroking his chest. We held hands for a bit to. He stroked my hair and I fell asleep on his shoulder with his head on top of mine. Then we moved and he lay across me for a while where i stroked his face. He would pull me closer to him.

However, he has a girlfriend so I dont know what to do, as this behaviour seemed to be more than friendly to me. He also hasn't said anything more about it. I don't know whether it was just friendly or meant something but i am too scared to ask due to him having a girlfriend and being scared he will laugh at me.

What do I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

That sounds more than friendly. Intentional boob touching isn't platonic.

It doesn't mean he's got any intentions of leaving his GF though. It might not be anything to him, he might have just done it because he thought he could get away with it.

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