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I think about having sex with this other girl, but I'm already with someone.

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Question - (9 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, lilmizzbaybehh writes:

Hello everyone,

I have a question i know you all may hear this a lot, but i need to have it answered in detail

Right firstly, i'm a bi-female and i have been dating this girl got 3 years, but i do still like guys a little, but i am mostly for females.

I see myself being with another female, i can't take my mind off her.

I think about having sex with this girl and touching her and all sorts, i think she likes me but i'm not too sure. How can i know for sure? How can i experiment with her in confidence and be sure that she wont talk about me to other people.

If you could help i would be very greatful.

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland + , writes (9 May 2008):

Isabella1974 agony auntHi there, i will do my best to answer this for you.

Ok you are with this girl for 3 years, it seems to me that this relationship has run its course and you are looking for a way out, i know you probably care for your current girlfriend but, before you even consider going with someone else, dont you think it would be better to break it off with your current partner.

How well do you know this other girl you are attracted to? Get to know this other girl a bit better to see can you trust her and to see what type of character she has.

You are not to sure if she likes you? are you certain sure that she like girls? has she given off signals that she would like to get involved with you? In order for you to experiment with her in confidence it would be better for you to really try to get to know her a bit more, you can judge over time whether she is someone who would kiss and tell.

I trust you are being careful sexually regarding using protection etc.

i hope this helped you in some way.

take care

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