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writes:Feel free to tell me that I was wrong to do this, but I don't know what made me do it.My boyfriend was supposed to be moving into a flat the other day but it fell through (for what reasons I don't know), he said that the landlord had found someone else to let the apartment with him, which would mean he would have a flat mate. So when the apartment fell through, my fella hadn't paid any money but this other girl had and was demanding half the rent (which she has no right doing). Any way last night while he was in the bath i read his phone and found that it was someone he had asked to move in with him (that bit i don't mind) but it was a girl that; a) tried to split us up and b) fancies the pants off himWhy did he never tell me this, he knew i would go to his flat, stay over and she would be there so why keep it from me in the first place - i don't know what to do.My head is telling me one thing but my heart is telling me another. I thought that if i got outside advice then i would be able to see clearer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers.
He has told me that he doesn't fancy her but its besides the point. He took this girl out for her birthday (and never told me, he told me he was going to a friends house - there was no need to lie), all I have ever asked of him was that he never lie to me.
I don't understand why he would want to keep this from me because what would of happened if he had of moved in with her and I'd of gone round and found her there, he tends to take more than he gives in the relationship and I just don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): you need to talk to your boyfriend just because his flatmate fancies him does not nessicarily mean he fancies her, or if u can't bring yourself to talk to him about just watch how he acts around his flatmate see if there is a connection she may flirt with him but how does he react?
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