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anonymous
writes:I like this boy, even though i'm young, and i've liked him for a year or two. Well a few weeks ago I found out he likes me back, but since we're so young he is still sorta shy about girls. Like he will stare at me and everything, but he won't admit it. He has had a girlfriend before, two to be exact, but he admitted to liking them, but he won't admit to liking me.My question is, well two: Will he ever ask me out, do you think? And: If he admits to liking the other two girls, why doesn't he admit to liking me?Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Well, perhaps it's because boys that age are Doo Doo Heads. They don't know thre head from a hole in the wall. I suggest moving on. If he is iterested, he can look you up. Don't wast time by waiting on him.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (3 July 2008):
 My guess is that he's probably a bit more shy with you than he was with his previous girlfriends. You're at an age when girls are changing a lot quicker than guys are, so it's not unusual for girls to develop feelings before guys do. And quite often the guys will pretend to go along just because they don't have a clue what it's all about.
But at a certain point, they begin to catch on. And then they get embarrassed. And very shy. My guess is that your guy had his prior girlfriends before he really started having real feelings toward girls, but now he's getting these feelings and it's scaring him. Before, he was probably just pretending. Now it's real and it's too scary.
Be nice to him. He's just as nervous as he can be right now. Let him know, VERY GENTLY, that you are interested in him. You can't be too obvious about this or you'll scare him off entirely. If there are social events that the two of you attend, take opportunities to socialize with him. The more comfortable he feels with you, the more likely it becomes that he will start asking you out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Probably because he likes you more than them? But let's get to two points here. This is the 21st century and a girl asking a guy is now not seen as something bad. If you like him, why dont you ask him? Now second point; your age. You're pretty young to have a boyfriend and really, you're just a child. It would be better if you focused in other thing like school and friends, but if you want a boyfriend go ahead. Just respect yourself and your body.
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