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writes:im 16 and my boyfriend is 18 im really attached to him and its like never spend time with me but only one time i really love him but i dont know what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): DVI, you may be incorrect here about him landing in jail. She is probably in the conscenting age (depending on her state) and when the consenting age is 16, she can date a guy and have sex with him if he's 2 years older than her. I think that's the limit. I don't know if you can really say you love him when you have barely spent time with him, and even more when it seems he is not interested in you. Since he's not showing no interest in you, why waste your time with this guy? Sure, you may love him, but your love towards him goes to the trash can. It hurts so much more when you like someone so much and they don't share the same feeling with you. The best thing is to dump him, forget about him, and move on. Don't fall into the temptation of going after him or chasing him or answering everytime he calls your name.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (3 July 2008):
 In the U.S., a 16 yr. old dating an 18 yr. old can be very dangerous water to tread in. I would put things on hold until you turn 18, because there's the risk that things might go to far. If you guys end up having sex, instead of landing in your arms, he's going to land in a jail cell. Once you're 18, re-think your position in life, and see if it still includes him. If so, go for it, but always be prepared to move on.
DV1
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