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writes:Hey,I have an issue with my girlfriend. She's been out of town almost every other week during the summer and when she gets back she wants to of course catch up with her friends and stuff (which I totally understand) but she can never hangout during the day because she has errands and stuff that she has to work on because she couldn't while she was out of town. So because she can't hangout during the day she'll want to hangout with her friends at night (again not a huge issue). Anyway the main point is it seems like she's never really fully returned. I mean she's returned to town but now she has work to makeup and it just makes things difficult. I was able to let my guard down with this girl but when she started leaving so much to go out of town I had to start distancing myself from her emotionally and I don't want to shut her out from what's going on inside but I don't feel like I can let my guard down anymore around her.How can I communicate to her that I simply want to be able to spend more time with her without her feeling like I'm trying to take her away from her friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, Caramelshawn +, writes (23 October 2009):
To be honest with u if she never have time for you than you gotta get over her, u need to make her feel like she need to spend time with you. Go out with other girls have fun with your life, I'm not saying cheat on her but if you feel like she would rather spend time with you then her friends than show her you could do the same. I understand that she be out of town and she got a job. That's a reason but if she her friends over you than that could be an issue
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 January 2009):
Just tell her that you really miss her and really want to see her so if she could let you know when she has a couple of hours spare then you would really like that.
It could be that she really likes you but that she just doesn't have time for a boyfriend at the moment.
It's not fair of her to keep you hanging on though so if she can't find time to see you once in the next week then you might want to ask her if she really wants to be with you or not.
Good Luck!! xx
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