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I feel better about my looks and I think I'm ready for a boyfriend - how do I go about this?

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Question - (29 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. My problem is pretty simple really, so here it goes :) I used to feel really depressed about the way I looked. I always used to look in the mirror and think "Urgh, Im so ugly". I never used to give eye-contact with people when they were talking to me because I was afraid they would see how ugly I was. I always wanted to be someone else.

Now, though, Ive started to straighten my hair, wear a bit of make-up, spend more time on my outfit and Ive generally improved my appearance and I feel so much better and kinda pretty at times and now I think Im ready for a boyfriend.

I don't know how to go about it though. I mean, its easy to flirt but that generally doesn't lead to anything.

Im not really experienced with lads and never ask them out (they dont ask me either lol). So my question is: what can I do to get a boyfriend?

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (29 July 2008):

StudentOfLife agony auntBe yourself. Nobody like a fake. I bet ya anything that you want that there's somebody somewhere that has a crush on you but is to shy to ask you out. It's always the case for anybody , we're so blind about it too.

Tips: If you're afraid to look at someone in the eyes, look at their nose (they see it as if you look at them in the eyes.)

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