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Has my long distance boyfriend lost interest, or am I overreacting?

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Question - (29 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

So this is my 1st relationship at that a long distance relationship, my bf and i have been together for 3 months.... we used to talk all the time, like i said a few questions ago he wants to marry me, but now i feel like he's not atracted to me anymore he hasnt said much to me for the past week n half. Last time we talked he was much more intersted to his friends, yeah i said hi...i waited, said i love you...i waited, said his name...i started to get upset so i left the room (i met him on the xbox360) he didnt bother to invit me back, or send me a message. its i wasnt even there, so i talked to my friend about it he sent soe messages to him saying that somethings up and we should work it out.....i dont think my bf was happy after that. i got an email saying everythings fine an the sittuation is done and over with, but it wasnt up until a week n half ago til he started talking to his friends more that i, could he be doing something that he doesnt want me to know, has he lost interst or am i just over reacting?

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A female reader, VMLBabyDoll United States +, writes (29 July 2008):

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Thank you, i guess i am over reacting. Maybe i am a little paranoid, i mean he lives in new jersey and im here in washington, maybe he could be doing things he doesnt want me to know or maybe he's not, so i am paraoid! i just dont wanna loose him to some one else, like he says to me "i dont want to loose you to one of you friends"

THANKS A LOT!

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (29 July 2008):

muffy agony auntHi sweety.Okay,your not overreacting,your just a little paranoid and your being a normal teenager.You haven't met this boy for 1 and I've already been through what you've been through.Now,he's a teenager too and most teens are only interested in their friends.Not all,but most.If he said everything's fine,then maybe it is.If you think he's doing something that he doesn't want you to know about,then ask him.If he doesn't write back then he's not worth it.The fact that he said he wants to "marry" you is a little un-true.Your only a teenager and you and him shouldn't be worried about marriage.So don't get to attached to what he says.

Hope I helped

Love always,Muffy

P.S.-If you have any questions then ask me3

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