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writes:I had a birthday card from someone I met on holiday. We didnt have any sex on holiday because I was unwell etc etc and also I wanted to hold back. We have e mailed a few times jsut as friends. Do you think it would be ok if I e maield him and pur a propostiition to him that he's be "ok for it" if he fancied another opportunity. he did want it on hol (as msot men do) I know its taking a risk but I feel we only have one life and neither of us are getting any younger.. I know he isnt married I have his home address etc-shoudl I take the plunge and ask him if he fancies a weekend away??? I DO KNOW its a chance he might say get lost but then he might not and how do I word it!!!!! Am I cheapening myself? probably but is there any harm
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reader, Kinky Boots +, writes (21 July 2008):
 What do you have to lose??? Go for it girl, you only live once and if he says no then at least you have asked.
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (21 July 2008):
Are you in a relationship? If not go for it. Just ask him if he fancies a weekend away just the 2 of you. You don't have to have a dirty weekend if you get cold feet. You could just spend some time together getting to know each other. The worst he'll do is say no. If he is up for it and so are you then have fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): A guy that you met on holiday where sex was already discussed tells you that this probably won't be a relationship. Why would he reject the opportunity for sex and tell you to get lost? Unless he senses you may want a relationship, he may not go for it. I have to ask, you receive a card but this guy hasn't taken you out? Now you want to go away for a weekend? There's no harm if you don't ever expect to hear from him again after that weekend or just have a sex based relationship. If you have more in mind, don't bother.
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (21 July 2008):
I think you need to be careful.
What do you want from this man?
If you want a good time off him but nothing serious then go for it! Ask him if he fancies a week away, book a cabin in the countryside somewhere and remember to pack condoms and whipped cream. Have a great time. He knows you don't sleep with a guy on the first date, because you resisted his attempts on holiday. And even if he does come away thinking you are cheap, who cares? You don't ever have to see him again.
If you want a relationship with him then be a lot more careful. See him for a date and a day out together but don't sleep with him or suggest a dirty weekend. Make sure you have his heart before you give anything away.
Good Luck!! xx
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