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writes:My Situation is that lately a man aged 18 (same age as me-call him Jack) moved into a house on my road. Are these signs of flirting or him having feelings for me:When he moved in came to my house got to know my mum etc.. then when I got home he started talking to me like he knew me for ages and start saying things like wooow your so pretty and you got a nice sense of taste in clothes, you should probably come with me shopping so yeh tomorrow 12:00pm (he sorted out the arrangement of me and him going shopping when I never agreed and then walked ofH took me to the cinema and put his arm around me and tingled me, and came close to me as if he was going to kiss me.He took me out to dinner and brought me a nice dress with jewellery and shoes.Every time I get out the house he walks down with me to the bottom of the road or to the bus stop and a lot of times has waited until the bus has come. He came down my house and we were messing around and we were really close to kissing, but we never and he acted normal afterwards.Another time he came down my house and we were having a pillow fight and he went to grab the other pillow and I tripped him over and he fell on top of me on my bed and he came so close his lips were really close to mine and he seemed to look like coming to reach out and kiss me but instead he go up.My mates say I have changed since he has arrived in a good way because I smile more often and laugh more often. I tend to smile most/all the time. They say he flirts with me a lot and defiantly likes me, and assume I like him. I admit I fancy him. I am shocked that I do so fancy him because I am less interactive with males.He some how got my msn addy and mobile phone number with out me giving it to him (I don’t mind him having it but it’s a coincidence).His sister told me to come down her house about something and it was urgent something to do about college. I went down her house and she was walking out the house told me to stay and said she will be back soon. I waited ages she never came, I talked to Jack a lot and then was going to go but Jack told me not to do so as if he didn’t want me to and had something to say instead of his sister. I waited 10 minutes, for 5 minutes I walked around admiring the painting and looked at the collection of DVD’s while he starred at me, and each time I looked he would look away. Then for the rest of the 5 minutes I sat down talked a little to Jack and then we had a little moment were we both came really close and kissed but not a proper kiss, just a slight peck on my lip. Then his sister walked in just a couple of minutes after we had the moment and then I talked to her sister about what she wanted my help for and she said something about how to do a piece of coursework and were to find the information. She had a smirk on her face and Jack kept starring at me and smiling and seemed to be happy (I guess it was cause we had the moment) His sister kept coughing and then looking at Jack. I would have gone when Jack sister came but I didn’t want it to look like I was not interested and that I was disgusted by his kiss so I stayed acting like everything was normal and I didn’t mind what just happened. I wanted to know was that the right thing to do? don’t get something why was his sister coughing and looking at him and through out us talking she had a smirk and looked at me and then Jack? She also seemed to know about the coursework and how to do it etc…. and what to write in it then why did she ask me to come? You don’t have to answer them few questions unless you have an answer. Also the moment we had was not a kiss exactly, it was just a peck on my lips really so does that still show he likes me? What do I do next? Any advice or opinion will be appreciative. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): hi. um this is a really interesting situation. maybe its ur turn to make the move. u kno how us girls sumtimes get annoyed that we always have to make moves and set things up? well its prolly the same for guys. next time a moment comes, take it. steal the moment. grab life by the horns. lol
my second option would be to give him space. maybe this isn't meant to be. or maybe it is. quoting one of my favorite lines to live by: "if you really love something, let it go. if it was meant to b, it will come back to u."
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): To my feeble mind, it seems that he is definatly interested, but just isn't sure how to handle the situation. Perhaps you need to grab the bull by the horns, and get the ball rolling. "Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained." Good Luck Sweetie
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): What if he's one of those shy guys?
Do you think he wants to?
So, why don't you ask him if he's too shy or whatever?!
My b/f was sooo shy we didn't kiss until i told him to!
(I'd been telling him to for a long time though)
But after it was fine and he kisses me alot.
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