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He likes "happy endings" but how can I get mine?

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Question - (21 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boy friend would rather me give him, massages and happy endings!

he works hard at hes job he works for a steel company and loads steel 10 hours a day so i rub him down

and that doesnt bother me at all

i like doing that for him but he wants a blow job after not always but most of the time,

i like giving head but i love sex also

he says i like bjs during the week and sex but more sex on the weekends

but it seems he would rather just get a blow job all the time we have sex maybe twice a week i give him a blow job 5 times a week

how do i get him to have more sex with me

????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008):

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well i told him i need sex to and its not all about him he said you dont understand how tired i am but we end up having sex and passing out

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntWhy don't you try to turn him on more?

When he comes after work, dress really sexy or on something that he would think would be sexy. I assume you have your own way to turn him on, but since you said that he comes tired and you massage him, try to give him an erotic massage. Do other things that you think will turn him on a lot and when you think the time is right, then start going your way to have sex with him.

If he still trying to make you give him a blow job, then try to switch roles and become the dominant one. A lot guys like when a girl takes charge so he might get more turned on. Order him what to do and you manage around. Probably he will not stand it and will want to have sex with you.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (22 July 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntheres a crazy idea.

Tell him. No blow jobs for you UNTILL the weekend.

are you his girlfriend or his bitch?

Grow a set of balls and tell " Your man" what you want instead of being a good little slave and being done as you're told.

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