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writes: This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end of the night and I gave him 2 let me say again 2 amazing blow jobs and he was in awe etc. since then no calls texts etc? whats the deal?
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reader, les  +, writes (6 August 2008):
Chalk it up to experience: guys rarely call girls who have sex/oral sex/hook up with them two days after meeting them. Or the first date. Even the second date is questionable. However, dont be surprised if one of these weekends you get a drunken text into the night asking what you're up to and if you want to hang out.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Call me old fashioned, but when you date a new guy surely you get to know the guy before you get intimate with them.
Of course he acted like he was into you, he wanted to get what he wanted and then move on to his next conquest. If you want any long term relationship, then I suggest you let these guys court you properly before you go to third base. Guys respect you more if you make them wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): Could be one of two things:1. He might just be one of them guys who get what they want from girls and then don't bother again. So, in this case, he got a BJ from you (which Im guessing is what he wanted), now he doesn't want to bother with you.-Or-2. He's just busy and will ring/text you when he's got free time. I had the same problem with a lad (still do have it tbh)- where we'd spend ages and ages talking, laughing, flirting, messing about and just having fun, etc then he wouldn't text or anything for days. Turns out he was busy (work, etc)but when he had free time, we'd text again and have the best laugh ever! I dunno if Im younger than you or not, but this still could be the case. My advice would be not to chase him or bombard him with texts; you'll only push him further away. Just wait for him.....If he gets in touch, then great!If he doesn't get in touch then he's a useless pig, whos only after one thing and you learn from it. Hope it helped and Good luck!!!! =]
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (6 August 2008):
 He got what he wanted from you..now it's on to the next girl. or like the book says "He's not into you". nothing personal..that's how some guys are.
He might call again expecting another bj. but don't expect a serious relationship.
Next time, when you really like, it's best to wait at least the 3rd date to have sex.
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reader, Dreamie Tofu +, writes (6 August 2008):
the problem seems to be he just wanted pleasure so he went towards you but at the same time im not sure what his mind is thinking. But really A guy you might just met you should of know him a little longer and better two days no one can trust someone in just two days. No calls or text...this may sound mean but i think hes going towards another girl and doing the same thing now.
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