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We've known each other for so long- why the suddent interest in me?

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Question - (6 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

Theres this guy who I have known for about 8 years as we used to go to school together. Recently he started chatting to me alot which he never did before. Hes been messaging me alot and talking to me pretty much every day. He asked me to the movies and he offered to pick me up. Does this sound like a date?

Also, if it is, then why now would he ask me out? I dont understand because we have known each other for so long, but why does he now show a sudden interest in me??? Hes not really a shy guy, so I would find it hard to believe that he liked me all that time and was to shy to say anything.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

Ask him by responding his chat.if it is date,May be he was liking you for about 8 years.Now things are changed.8 years liking are changed to LOVE so enjoy his company.

GOOD LUCK!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

ask him! simple as that. send it in a text, just say hey this hanging out thing is great and i enoy your company but in what way do u like me? u kan rephrase it but basically u need to know. dont get the signals twisted and end up hurt. if he says no then act like its nothing. if he says yes then take it from there.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008):

May be he was liking you for about 8 years.Now things are changed,8 years liking are changed to love.So if you love him to just have fun.

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A female reader, BendychickP Australia +, writes (6 August 2008):

BendychickP agony auntMaybe he only just realised he likes you. Sometimes something sudden, like a relative dying or someone breaking up with you, is enough to shock people into realising what is right in front of them. Or maybe he just realised that he is atracted to you. He might not be sure how to act, hence the calling you all the time and talking to you. He probably only just got the guts to ask you out. Just enjoy his company and let things happen, no point trying to analize everything in life. Just have fun and go with it. Best wishes.

Bendy xx

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