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I can't stop thinking about her but she seems distant. Do you think I should ask her out?

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Question - (19 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *rinceofsorrow writes:

hello.

i;m madly in love with a girl that i work with. she likes me as a freind, but even then she sometimes seems distant or if she can't be bothered to talk to me. this is especially true when i leave work and say goodbye to her. she talks to another man there a lot more than me and i think she really fancies him, but she giggles with other men as well, and i get really jealous even with my friends. I really love her, and i can't stop thinking about her. i don't know if i should ask her out, i just don't what to do. it's killing me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

i am the same. i am 17. i work with a girl and really love her. she dosent notice me much, dosent talk to me much and dosent know how i feel about her. i dont think i her type. i still going to ask her because you will never know and even if she says no then whats the worst that cud happen? if she is wierd about it then just dont take any notice ofher and pretend you dont like her anymore. e.g Dont speak to her much and be distant with her. girls like it when boys like them so if she thinks you dont anymore she will start to forget about it or somtimes they grow feeling for you cos they want to be loved by someone again cos they miss you likeing them. ask her.

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A male reader, havark United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2008):

havark agony auntyou should go for it... you never know she might like you, but think about your relationship at work aswell, because if she says no, you might not want to see her.

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