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*attie90
writes:hi all i have a question that most people have problems with figuring out. i feel that im in love with my boyfriend but could it just be that i have an attachment to him i feel like the happiest when im with him. ive had many boyfriends and each one has treated me badly but with the guy i'm with now he's amazing he's the one i've been dreaming about when we stay with each other i wake up next to him with a smile i cant imagine my life without him hes everything to me. hes the cheese to my maccaroni i believe i love him i cant imagine my life without him! please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (20 April 2008):
 you could very well be in love. i know that feeling and they say that you ar your happiest when your with the one you love...But only you know your true feeling so its kinda hard to decipher feelings that only you can feel. It could also be a combination of the two. You said that you had bad expirences with past bfs and they treated you badly, since he treats you exceptionally well then you might just be hung up on how he treats you. Think long and hard about this one, your answer will come hun
take care =]]
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): yeah, you're probably just infatuated at this point, but that doesn't mean it won't grow into love.
the way i see it, love is a choice. it's a decision, every day, to do the most loving thing. to really look out for the other person's interests when it matters most. it's about seeing them for who they really are -- both good and bad -- and accepting them as a whole person.
it sounds like you've found something great, which is wonderful. i would caution you not to rely on him for all of your happiness - it's a lot of pressure to put onto any one person, and eventually you'll feel best abt yourself if you can want to be with him without *needing* him desperately.
enjoy the butterflies and try to get to know who he really is, and to let him see YOU for who YOU really are- warts and all. most of all, be fearless, and love with abandon.
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