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writes: Why don't I reach orgasm when my bf fingers me? It feels good at times but that feeling doesn't make me cum and my bf feels bad about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): You need more clitoris stimulation probably honey. There are 2 places in particular that through using these, girls can orgasm from. One is your clitoris, the other is your g-spot. And orgasming from your g-spot can be pretty hard. A lot of girls simply can't. So this leads me to think your boyfriend isn't going near your clitoris. This is why you're not getting to the point of an orgasm honey. But you might just be simply thinking, "Come on man, orgasm. Why am I not having an orgasm? Orgasm orgasm orgasm." which sure isn't going to relax you. So forget about it and enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Stand up nd let your leg go up too.
Your bf needs to slide his fingers in gently and then it just happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): I think it's great that you at least let him know that you are unable to reach an orgasm that way. The fact that you're communicating with each other means it will be easier to discuss what ultimately will help.Definitely try to stimulate your clitoris. One way that I've found works rather nicely is if your boyfriend fingers you while you lay back and play with your clit. That way you have some control over the pace and pressure. Another suggestion is have him preform oral sex and finger you at the same time. Both sensations occurring together will make it more likely that you'll orgasm.It may just be that you're expecting too much. If you feel pressured to finish so that he doesn't feel bad, you're not as likely to cum. To get more in the moment you can make sure your eyes are closed, or maybe even have your boyfriend blindfold you, which could turn you both on and make you more comfortable.Hope that helps.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 maybe your bf needs to discover your clit.sex and orgasms are.... i don't want to say 2 different things but.. they're along the same route however if you take a wrong turn you'll miss the turning you wanted.and most guys wont stop and ask for directions.generally around the clit as opposed to directly on it is better.for G-spot..lay down on your back. pillow under your back so you're arched up slightly. and one under your butt to lift it slightly.so your body should be C curved slightly.have him make the "come hither"/ "beckoning" motion with his fingers. one or 2. whatever works.now, the location he's aiming for is kinda Befind your clit.2 inches in. and one inch up and slightly back.the beckoning motion should hit it .
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