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writes:hi,i need some advice,me and my girlfriend have been split up for nearly 3 months and we have kept in touch mainly through txt,we split because i got abit too clingy and controlling and i think we got too serious and she wasnt ready for it,i met her last nite though and i spoke to her,i told her i still loved her and and still wanted to be with her,she said that she isnt ready to be in a relationship but she promised me that when she is ready before she meets anyone else she wants us 2 to give it another go,i asked her if she still loved me and she said yes,she also has a my space account but it says she is only looking for friends but her profile is set to private and she has a lot of male friends from school,do you guys thinks she means what she said to me last night?thanx guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): hi brownpepper,i appreciate the comments but she doesnt know that i know she has a my space account and she does say that she is just looking for friends,i have thought if she was just saying it,do you think i should ask her if she meant it?
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reader, brownpepper  +, writes (19 April 2008):
The two "magic words" are, split up. If you are not together, if she has a myspace account set at, "private", if she feels you are to clingy, and controlling, if you have been split up 2 months,if she said "I don't want to be in a relationship, do I think she meant what she said lastnight? No I don't, I think at the time od speaking with you said things to make you feel good, because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. Point. Blank. Period, I don't mean to hurt your feelings, either, but look at the clues, they are all in your question, the answers are all in your question.
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