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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I kissed a friend on the cheek and my boyfriend wont let it go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We really do love each other and care about each other. However, we've been having issues. We have a mutual close friend (call him Charles), that I am very close to. I hadn't seen him in awhile and du...

We are supposedly 'on a break', but the relationship really hasn't changed. I want to officially be his girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he is depressed. He has a lot of stuff going on with his family and the 2 jobs he works. He said it is not fair for me to be in a relationship like this since he can't see me as often as we both would like. He ...

How can I nicely ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - How can I ask my girlfriend nicely to shave or trim her pubic hair? How do I bring it up? How do I say it so that she doesn't get mad?...

She brings her friends along on dates... !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Hi there, Me and my girlfreind have been going out for 8 months she is still in school and im in college. We dont get to meet each other much anymore. We probably meet up once a week and when I do arrange to meet up she always fetches her frei...

I'm 15 and fancy a boy who is 11 ~ Is this wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I am a 15 year old girl and fancy a boy in who is 11. Would it be wrong if we went out? ...

I am 13 and think I am bi. I like both girls and guys! I am so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

3 October 2007 (?) - Hi, I'm a guy but I'm not sure about things anymore. I fancy this girl in my class (I have for about a year) but she barely knows I exist. I do like her but that's not the only problem... I think I'm bi. I know there's nothing wrong with that ...

Is he with me just cause it is convenient, or does he really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Here is a good one. I am 46, been with the same guy for 13 months. We get along so well, but the problem is he isnt in love with me.He has been up and down lately with feelings, and when I bring up what his future plans are he says he doesnt know. ...

I've started to get feelings for him, but he says he just wants to be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Theres this lad i met about 5 month ago, we've been texting alot and he told all his friends how much he likes me, trouble is now that i've started to get feelings for him, he says he thinks we should be friends.. and i'm gutted! Did he just lead me ...

I'm married with a family yet I still love my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I'm married and have a family but i'm still in love with my ex. He is with someone and has a child with her. I have known my ex from high scholl and ever since the day i saw him i feel in love with him and never stop loving him. I met my husband ...

Not sure if he is mad with me for not letting him live with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I told him he could not live with me, I haven't heard from him ever since. Is he mad or just moved on for good?...

Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng ...

I think my best friend likes my boyfriend, and I'm worried he likes her too.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Recently ive noticed that my best friend has started to take alot of interest in my boyfriend. I've tryed to ignore it, thinking i'm being paranoid and stupid. Thing is, this has happened before, with a different friend stealing an ex. I care ...

He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them ...

Do I continue to flirt with my brother's best friend or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I'm crazy about my brothers friend who he lives with. My worry is, do I continue to flirt with him and generally try my best to get together with him, or leave it because he's my brothers best friend? My brother is very protective of me and I wo...

My bf's daughter and her husband seem to want to control my bf's life..far too much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i have been dating a man for the past 2years and 10 months. we broke up twice but are now somewhat back together. i know that we each need to have our own friends and activities, but what do you guys see as a schedule for seeing each other. he ...

Was I really to blame for all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - What I want to know here is if I am in the wrong. What happened was that I went to a night out with my friend who is my ex. There was a guy who liked her, his friend (who has a girlfriend) and our old friend. These three guys were all friends. ...

I've known him for 16 yrs but never seen him. People say he's not interested in a serious relationship with anyone and it's the only kind I want. Should I move with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I am interested in getting to know a man better. I have known im for some 16years, but I don't know him personally. I have heard he is dating several women. I asked him if he has a woman, and he saids no. He has friends but not a woman. People say ...

My fiance doesn't want this baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...

Big trust issues over my girlfriend's past relationships...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Alright, I haven't been with my "girlfriend" for long, but it is most definitely serious and have already made plans.. The topic for discussion here is not that I'm jumping into it to quick or anything. She is 9 Years older than me, and maybe that ...

Am I just unlucky or is it something I am doing wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Since starting college, I haven't been able to meet anyone around my age interested in a relationship. I attend a community college, so many of the women that attend are around 25 years of age. I apparently appear to many to be far older than I ...

It's been a couple of days since she said she'd call and no sign of her! Is she playing the "not wanting to seem too eager" game ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Hi, I met this awesome girl who works at at restaurant about 3 months ago. At that time I had a girlfriend who she met when we cam in to eat. I have now been single for a couple of months and decided to roust up the courage to ask for her number. ...

Confused! My bf isn't talking to me now, over my dad's reactions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Why would my boyfriend need acceptance from my father with regard to his daughter from a previous marriage. He is not talking to me since yesterday because of how my father responded when he was told about my boyfriends's daughter. The response was ...

Why did he flaunt me like that. Was he trying to make her jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - my ex just broke up with a girl he always runs to from his past (he calls her his rebound) the other day we were out on a date, and he saw her cousins and some of his friends, he asked me to stay around them and flaunted me in front of his rebound's ...

Having a gay relationship with my cousin but don't want to break our families' hearts, I'm not even sure I'm a lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Hi, Last week I finished with my boyfriend because i dont love him anymore. I have been going out clubbing with my girl cousin and she is a lesbian. I've recently started fancying her and i told her how i felt on a friday then she told me she has ...

If I join the Army she won't marry me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - I was to recruited to join Armed Forces but my Gf told me not to join if i want to marry her,"Joining Army,u'll lose me,continuing with my current job we'll get married"Advice what can i do....

He left me for another; now we're back together but feel I'm constantly building hate inside me for him. The other girl says they've still been seing each other, which he denies. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i started seeing this guy two years ago and moved in with each a week after we met, the first 8 months were great, then we split as he met somebody else, we then got back together about a year ago, but my mind was in overtime constantly thinking he ...

The guy I'm dating doesn't trust me do to my past. I discovered a message on his phone and I've trust issues too, should I forget about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i have been dating a guy now for bout 3 months,he says he loves me,but doesnt trust me as i have not had a good past.i do love him and would never go behind his back,i read a text on his phone from a girl he become friends with, before he met me,not ...

We started dating, then I had to leave the country. I stopped calling in hopes that she would move on! What else can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Well, I got to know this girl through dating another girl - and she helped me through this huge breakup and became a huge friend of mine - and she fell for me i dont know since when but she gave me her hand to hold and even told me she was in love ...

My gf always tries to make me jealous and her behavior gets me so angry! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - I have been going out for the last 10 months and I am quite fine with my girl. We are really commited and all, but the only thing that bother me is that she always tries to make me jealous all the time. I get really pissed. The more I ask her not to ...

My military bf is going on tour soon and I'm a nervous wreck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i really love each other. We have been together 1 1/2 yrs. He is in the army - work is very important to him. He is going on tour soon and I'm turning into a nervous wreck, but he doesn't seem to understand. I am getting nervous if ...

How can the world's tallest hobbit (me!) get the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - I am a very down to earth sweet young man with big dreams and aspirations. I am also built like Buddha. I can't seem to find a decent girl out there who will accept me. I'm not 100% sure of it but really really feel like girls judge me based on my ...

I'm friends with my ex and want her to find a great bf, but get upset when she's talking to a new guy! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - I just got out of a relationship a few months ago with an amazing girl and we have actually managed to keep a very close friendship. We still love each other very much but not in the romantic way. Anyways, a guy from her work has started talking to ...

My fiance wants to wait two years until we're married! Isn't that too long?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - My fiance to get has told me to wait for 2 years from now so that we can get married,Isn't that too long.Advice please....

My ex wants to get back together! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I don't think my ex is ready for a relationship right now. He ran from our relationship because he felt that he was getting too close. In his previous relationship, the girl hurt him and he hasn't been able to trust another female so he pushed me ...

I am falling way behind people my age with girls, and it's getting to me bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Hi there. Well i am 19, and i feel like i am slipping behind others teenagers my age to be honest. I don't hide away in a corner. I talk to people, guys and girls my age. I have plenty of friends, and i am outgoing. Told i am a good looking guy. But...

How can I tell if a guy is interested in me if he is shy - and how do I approach him? I'm 21 & have never had a bf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I have a crush on a guy but I can't tell if he likes me. I am very self conscious but none of my friends seem to take me seriously when I tell them I don't think guys like me. Everyone tells me I'm pretty and have a great personality but if that ...

He said he was 'bored with our relationship" and it hurt! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - What does it means when your bf text message you with: "I am bored of us".." every day is the same..."hi..good morning.. good night.." . I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend..and we talk on the phone; but lately he's been very ...

Does this new guy really share my values or is he faking it. How do I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I just met this guy at university a week ago and we get along really well. We have the EXACT same tastes in music its unbelievable...so much that I wonder if hes lieing when he says he likes all of the same music as me. We have talked about all...

Why am I so picky with dating relationships and how do I fix it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Is something seriously wrong w/ me? What could be going on here??? OK, I don't know if the grass just seems greener on the other side of the proverbial fence, whether I just plain don't want a relationship deep down, am too picky or fickle or what....

Hand holding..why won't he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend won't hold my hand and I don't know if he wants to or not? how do you tell?...

Please help me learn to flirt, I need suggestions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Any tips on flirting? I have had a pretty much tramatic 7-8th grade socially. I was just becoming outgoing and being myself and then -8th grade hit. I left my school and am now homeschooled my old friends are really my social but i cant help and...

I feel like I should give him another chance but am so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I just found out that my BF of 6 months that lives with me cheated. I found messages on his phone that said 'I wouldn't have kissed you, if I didn't think you were attractive' and a few other random things.. I confronted him about this and he alleg...