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Dating: Help and advice

I really like my friend as more than a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - im 14 and love someone. ive never felt this way about anyone before. he used to like me but messed me around it was like i was being used. its been months since we last did something together but i want us to be more than friends. we're really close ...

My boyfriend kissed another guy. I am mostly ok with it, but a little concerned it might go further.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Been daing this new guy for about 2 months. The other night we got pretty drunk and he made out with his guy friend. Said it was his "first male kiss", and I believe him. (He wont let me play with his anus when we're fooling around - FYI) We g...

I love him, but his moods are getting to me! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - My b/f is what I would describe as "tempermental". He can be sweet, cuddly, loving and thoughtful at times. But when he's stressed out (which is frequently) he uses a tone of voice that is unkind and demeaning, gets irritated if I have a meeting to ...

I really like him, but he has a girlfriend! Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I really like this boy and everyone said he liked me to, but then today i found out he was kissing this other girl that supposed to love him. what do i do shall i tell him straight how i feeland see how he reacts or wait and see what happens ?...

How do I go about asking her round/out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - Hey, well last time i was in this situation it just sort of fit, so im not too sure how to go about it again with the new girl. I see her a few times a week because of college, got speaking and i think we have gotten quite close for how long we have ...

How can tell if he likes me as more than a student?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Alright so this might be sort of long, but please bear with me. I have not had very much experience with men. I am 21 years old and the problem is that I have developed feelings for a man who is 32. He is a professor at the college I attend, but ...

I love him, he loves me... But we can't see eachother. Help us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have to hide our relationship and now his phone has gotten taken off of him because of his fathers suspicion. We used to speak all the time and this sudden barrier is torture for us, he told me tonight that he is depresse...

Why won't guys date bigger women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5976 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Iam 20 years old and I have never been in very many relationships. I have ahd one serious boyfriend and a few casual relationships. I know it is because Iam overweight. Everyone tells me Im beautiful, smart,a nd have a shining personality. i know I ...

I fancy my teacher! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - i really fancy my teacher. sometimes i think he like my and sometimes i dont. its hard, when he cmes over 2 help me in class and stares into my eyes...i just...go mad inside!!! i catch him staring at me sometimes but i know hes nt a perv, hes 29 and ...

How can you find out what your partner really thinks about you WITHOUT asking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - how do you Know what your partner really thinks about you,without asking them. how do you know if he thinks your to clingy, to full etc ? plz reply?...

My brother's down coz the girl he likes is going out with his mate! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - My life is fine but my little bro is 14 and his best mate is going out with the girl he fancies. He is really down and i hate to see the little guy sad. Please help him!...

Do I wait for her to find herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - I spilt with my gf of 5 years about 5 weeks ago. We split because she started saying that she felt that she needed to go travelling on her own and find her self as it were. I then said fine and broke up with her. I love her still and miss her ...

We're back together, but my feelings haven't returned after our split! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Help! My partner and I got back together a couple of months ago after splitting up in February but whilst we were apart I lost all the feelings and love that I once had for him and I know now that I can't get these feelings back enough to make the ...

He can't tolerate me when I get in a (rare) bad mood. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and been there for him for his emotional and physical needs. In the past financial also. Whenever he is down, depressed, worried or lonely he can always depend on me. Never felt burdened by it. Its to be ...

He doesn't make me feel sexy! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I am happily married to my soul mate and the love of my life. he gives me everything i need and want. But he doesn't make me feel sexy. He always wants to have sex and gives me many of compliments. we talk about everything and i mean everything. we ...

Do you think he loves me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I just moved to new york to live with my fiance three months ago (we have been engaged since december). We haven't set a date yet. Anyway, I'm working part time jobs while looking for a real estate job, and haven't found any luck. Im not that happy ...

Will he ever break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I met a guy last year and we hit it off straight away. He told me he had a girlfriend but they weren't getting on and he was going to finish it with her, but they had a 4 day holiday booked next month so he was going to wait until after that to do ...

I'm not sure what to do about my unofficial bf after our argument! We haven't spoken in 4 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I am in love with a guy who I have known all my life, for the past two years we had a great relationship, but never made anything official. When I finally said I'm tired of hiding, he said he's not ready to go public yet and he cares alot about me ...

I slept w/ my crush's brother before we met. I told him about it, and now I think I've put him off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I had sex with a friend's brother before I'd met my new friend. Now I really like my friend, but I think I've put him off. He's such a great guy and unlucky in love just like me, I think something could've happned had I not told him about the si...

I cheated after a year together, while drunk! He doesn't trust me now. Can I earn his trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - i have a really bad problem, i went out at the weekend and i got stupidly drunk and kissed another guy, and my b/f caught me doin it. i have been seeing him for about a year but only been going out for a month. and now he says he cant trust me i ...

He insults my family and friends! Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - why does he insult my family and friends, or make cruel remarks, jokes about them. and even gets angry this happens on most days. i get so upset and down about it.This has been going on for over four years and i do not live with him, but have ...

In love with my cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - I fell in love with my cousin, im jus 21 and she is 28 i didnt mean to fall for her. it just started like friends but we matched eachother so well, maybe to well. I still in love with her and i know she loves me to. we've slept witheachother but now ...

Could he want to be more than just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - I have this friend who I really like more then a friend. But I'm not sure if he feels the same way and I don't wnat to tell him how I feel until im sure he feels the same way. Lately hes started calling me affectionate names like 'sweetie' and st...

I love her so how do I get her to be exclusive to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - I really dont know how to start this, so I'm just gonna let it come out. I can't even really call her my girlfriend. We're together, but we're not 'together'. We dated a long time ago, but she ended it after a month. When I asked why, she said we...

I am pregnant and he want to still date..but cut down on the time we spend together. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i are having a baby and we've only been dating 6 months. i got pregnant the first night. Now he says he wants a normal relationship where he has his feedom still, cause hes 21 and im 27. He doesnt want to move in together yet and ...

He said he doesn't want to rush things..so does he even like me or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - ok so i have a problem well there is this guy. and i really really care about him. and i think that he cares about me too. He even told my friend that he cares about me.. its just that ive been waiting on him for a long time. weve been talking ...

How do I make our first time special for my girl? Tips from women preferred?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and i think were ready to make love i want her first time to be special and great and a long time ago she told me before we went out that she wanted her first time to be great sex well she ...

Do women find short men attractive?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - Ok, I read the one about the lady asking a good question about whether men find tall women attractive. Well, I admit it, I prefer short women,but, for a good reason, I'm short myself! I'm only 5'4. So, my question is exactly the opposite. Do women ...

Should I ask her to trim her hairy private area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - My lady friend is rather hairy around her private area, how could i ask her to trim it without wrecking any further chances?...

She displays weird, jealous behaviors! Is all this worth the trouble?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

1 October 2007 (M) - Lately arguments over the same things developed between me and my fiance. From day one she has been aggressively jealous (even violent). However,there`s been several things i have seen looking suspicious, or her behaviour has gone wierd after ...

I have no friends or family to talk to...can you help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Hey well my boyfriend an are goin around for 4 yrs and now our relationship has come to an end. I have no friends an my family and i don't talk. What should i do?? I can't go out because i have no one to lime with. I wish i had a friend...

Is it too soon to talk about marriage after only 7 months together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

1 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid i'v been in a relationship for 7 months now. for this 7 months we feel as if we have known each other for years. my bf is a very soft hearted and caring person. for me to get mad at him is somthing he really don't like and now we st...