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writes:Any tips on flirting?I have had a pretty much tramatic 7-8th grade socially. I was just becoming outgoing and being myself and then -8th grade hit. I left my school and am now homeschooled my old friends are really my social but i cant help and feel so low when aroud them becuase they flirt. They know how and im scared to even try cuase im not sure what to do. I really want this guy and i want to keep his interest and my friend said flirting with him would be good but i really dont know how....please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Flirting isn't a particularly hard thing to do once you get used to it. Generally, it consists of a lot of eye contact, and once you have caught the other persons eye, hold their gaze for 3 or 4 seconds, then look away. You could also lightly touch their arm, or brush your leg against theirs discreetly when you pass them. Really, it's just discreetly trying to show someone you like them. It's nothing to be scared of honey, they're not gonna come up and bite you! You could try and innitiate a small conversation, and keep smiling softly at them, don't just give them a big cheesy grin the whole way through! Laugh at their jokes, listen to them properly, act as though you're totally involved and interested in them. Try complimenting them if you have the courage. Just little compliments though, like, 'I love your skate shoes' or something. Try not to suddenly tell them how amazing they look today! You could even use your hand to flip your hair over your shoulder DISCREETLY AND NATURALLY! Don't go wild and make everything really obvious! This could give the game away.
I hope this helped, but remember, you can always just google 'how to flirt' and you're bound to come up with a load of answers. Good luck :]
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