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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I give him another try or do I just keep moving on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 9 nine months and about four months ago, after I told him I loved him, he told me that there was nothing between us except a physical relationship and that he liked me a lot but didn't love me and did not see that he ...

How can I make her stop loving me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Ok well there is this girl who lives near me and we are great friends (theres a little crew of us). I have know her for a while and we are great friends, huging and all that stuff. Being truthful shes not particularly pretty, she has a bad temper ...

We've given things another try, but now things seem different. Any thoughts how to straighten it up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hello there, I have been in my current relationship for about 5 months after a 2 year break up with the same person. He was the dumper in our previous relationship. Since we got back together, something just doesn' feel right, he is not as affect...

Ever since the beginning we knew we would get married. But now that it's drawing near, I'm scared!! Are we moving to fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi! I am coming up to a really exciting time in my life. I am 21 and getting ready to graduate with my bachelors degree in a year. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years (since senior year of highschool). I never thought that I ...

I have no contact with the boy I like but can't go out with. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I’m 13 and I like this boy a lot, I’m not even sure if I like him sometimes because he annoys me a lot he really honestly confuses my mind and messes with it. I’ve liked him for 4 years it’s like it’s impossible to forget him every time I try I ...

I always pick fight for no reason.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - i have a boyfreind that i love so much and who is so complicated every time i ask what do you want to do next he says do whatever you want. what should i do? should i go on with him? should i date someone i don't understand?because i love him i ...

I'm not only in love with him, I'm attracted to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I've been with a guy for a year now and he annoys me a lot.. he doesn't give me attention, he doesn't like to talk to me on the phone he always ignores me he cheated on me the first couple of months and he blamed it on alcohol now he doesnt drink ...

I'm 13 like a boy the same age, but I don't know whether he likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I’m 13 and I like this guy a lot, I’m not even sure if I like him sometimes because he annoys me a lot he really honestly confuses my mind and messes with it. I’ve liked him for 4 years it’s like it’s impossible to forget him every time I try I ...

How can I find out her feelings, without ruining our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - I've recently become more and more attracted to a close friend of mine. I'm 21 but she's 34. She's single and we always get on very well when we're together but I want to spend time with her as more than friends. How can I find out if she feels the ...

I got upset by his "weight" comment. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Okay So I'm seeing this guy I met online...it's been almost a year now, and recently I noticed a few small comments about weight..."oh you should have seen this guy at the mall...he was HUGE!" things like that...My BF is in Japan and I am in the U...

Beware of Creep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I don't want to be with my fiance that I broke up with 2 weeks ago, but why can't I stop thinking about who he is with next? Do guys move on faster than girls? He already went down to florida for like two weeks and it looks like he already has new ...

Need some assurance that my time will come

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Hi Everyone, I am an 18 year old male living NE Philadelphia and I have a few questions coming across my mind. Recently I moved to a completely new city and somewhat started a new life. I started making friends around my neighborhood and...

He's got a great personality, but not great looks. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi i have a big problem as this guy likes me i told him that i liked him too, but i dont i was drunk when i said it now he never stops ringing or texting or IM me. I want to give it a try with him hes got the best personality ever but his looks are ...

On again, off again boyfriend troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi me and my on off boyfriend of 6 years have always had a bit of an unsteady relationship and recently it has been unsteady because i have been keeping it a secret from my parents as they don't believe he is good enough for me. we hav been arguing ...

What are the signs a girl wants you to ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - can anyone tell me what the signs are that a girl would like you to ask her out? everytime we meet she smiles at me and once she said to me that she was going swimming as if it was an invite. ...

Why do I keep trying to cause conflict with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - finally found decent boyfriend who is everything i want..so why do i keep trying to cause conflict between us for no reason? ...

I love him, but I don't think I want to be with him. Please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I need help getting to the bottom of my feelings. My partner and I split up earlier this year after 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that ...

He says "We'll see". What does he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I just want to know from the guys what it really means when you tell someone you're interested in them and want to get to know them and seee where it goes and their reply is "i figured. we'll see what happens. I cant promise anything, but we'll see" ...

I told my bf of having been forced to do things I didn't like by a bad friend in the past. He says I'm "damaged" and that it scares him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I was forced to do things i didn't want to by someone who i thought was a close friend 2 years ago now. Am still not fully over it now, i still have flash backs and get shaky and scared and things when it came to telling my bf he was very underst...

I will let him touch my breasts but am worrid this will not keep him happy enough and he will leave me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I am seeing this guy i really like there was this story where he fingerd my friend befor we were seeing each other becoz of the fact i am 13 and he is 15 i am worrid that he wants to have sex but i am not ready he keeps on putting his hands on my ...

We kissed, I told him how I felt but we agreed things couldn't go further because he's getting married. How can I see him as just a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I spoke to a collegue of mine (who I'd liked for ages) for the first time at the very beginning of the year and we immediately clicked. We get on so well and have become quite good friends. I go for lunch with him and a few others quite regularly ...

Do I stay in the marriage for the sake of the children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Help! I have been married for 25 years. Have 2 children. 6 and 9. For most of my marriage, my husband has refused to touch me. I used to think there was something wrong with me, but turns out, he is very messed up sexually, and we've just started ...

I would like to find a healthy and loving relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I would like to find a healthy and loving relationship (Mod note: this is normally rejected, but I'm leaving this in. Note to poster: we need more information about yourself and what you're looking for. Web sites to meet possible love interest...

Is there any hope or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Ok, to make a ver long story short. Recently (Sep. 6, 2007) my girlfriend and I of over 2 years split up. We are both sophomores in college yet we go to school in different states. My ex and I grew up together, we went to the same grade school, ...

How do we get over our difficult past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - i met my girlfriend in may 2002 and we fell in love but since then we have had a very rocky ride...it started off very well and we had a healthy attraction coupled along with effective communication..her daughter who was 8 at the time hardly ever ...

How do I get a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - How does one get a second chance w/ an ex? We dated for a year, then lived together for 8 months. I made a lot of mistakes (as did he), but I want a second chance. We haven't talked in a couple of months now, any suggestions how I can get back on ...

I'm afraid, if I don't change, he'll leave me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I want to become less selfish. My boyfriend goes to his friend's house a lot. And I get mad when he leaves. Like I don't want to share him or something. It hasn't always been like this by the way, just the last couple of months of our 8 month re...

What are the chances of my being pregnent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - ok,well im 16 but one week b4 my 16th bday i lost my virginity with my then boyfriend we had sex twice once on a friday and then on the following monday,im on the pill but he didnt use a condom about 2 weeks later we broke up but 1 week ago i did a ...

My family doesn't accept gay people, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi im sixteen and i never been too intimate with guys..........cause im kinda a nerous freak........but.......i kinda sorta am attracted to sum grls but im not sure how do i know if im bi.....and am i like this because i havnt rally been too ...

They like me, I push away, I like them and they move on, how to deal with this issue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - When i start liking someone, i like them the most when i first start talking to them and when they dont like me that much. but when they start talking to me more and liking me more, i push away and like them less and less, i dont know maybe i like a ...

It was super glue, not lube.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Hey Ok. This is a true story and I need help. My girlfriend and I recently decided to try new things in our relationship. We decided to try anal sex for the first time ever. Here is the problem: The night we decided to try it, it was the sa...

Is dating a guy 18 and up too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi im sixteen i just wanted to ask is dating a quy eighteen an up to old for me...

She's messing with my heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend had to have a little 1 week break from eachother while she went on holiday to Turkey for a week with her family... Fair enough, we said our goodbyes, said we love eachother etc... I missed her, but she said she'd be ba...

Flirty or friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 318 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - How can i tell if my male coworker is being flirty or just friendly with me? He has a naturally friendly personality so i cant tell. How can i know for sure?...