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Dating: Help and advice

How can we re-light our fire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hey i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months, we have been moving quite fast though, i feel like he is losing interest in me. We do not talk for whole days and don't see eachother regularly anymore since he started a job and i started ...

I need to know if she like me. How do I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - how can i test the waters with a girl i like? Sometimes i feel she likes me and sometimes she doesn't. I want to find out, could i somehow hint her and see her reaction maybe by complimenting her? ...

How do I tell her that I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - need desperate help. I want to tell my friend i have feelings for her. Both 17 and go college. I don't talk to her everyday but i need to tell her. I dunno how to do it. I will definately ask her out face to face. But i don't know if i should t...

Should I work things out with my husband or go with this other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 356 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I've been married for 11 years now with 3 children, but recently my husband has not been taking any notice of me we barely talk, hardly ever have sex or even do things as a family. 4 weeks ago i met a new man but he lives a plane ride away, he is a ...

I like him, how do I go about meeting up with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - where do i go from here. I've known this guy through a lot of my friends, and we've talked a little at parties. Although recently we've gotten closer, we often send flirty txt messages, and we have both hinted that we like eachother, and want to ...

I'm a geek. What do girls like in teens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - i was wondering, im a bit of a geek in my school. you know, small, fat, unconfident? im getting better confidence, more people are liking me but i want a girlfriend. i was wondering, what is it you girls like at early teens? how should i get a ...

What does it mean when my husband told me another women respected and knows that he was married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 367 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I wanted to know what does it mean when my husband told me that another woman respected and knows that he was married? Plese help me i've been thinking about it but unsure. ummm... during that time my husband was always over at the nei...

Who do I choose? My friend or my first crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - For those of you who don't know what's going on, please go to the following link to read about it. thanks. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-tell-her-how-i-feel.html Well, I haven't quite told the whole story. It's a bit complicated, b...

Are there any urbal products my boyfriend can use to keep an erection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is 36 and having some erectile dysfunction problems. He can get an erection but after 10 or so minutes he can't maintain it. He doesn't want to use viagra. Can anyone suggest any herbal products they have tried which are effective? ...

He keeps giving me mixed signals - what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - im really confused. i really like this guy called **** from my part time job but hes giving me really mixed messages as to how he feels back. when everyone from work goes out for a few drinks hes really flirty with me, and if we go round someones ...

How can my boyfriend avoid being bored?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - anytime my boyfriend comes over hes bored. i hate going to his house too because he still lives with his family and i dont get the impression they like me being their(its quite a small house and i feel im taking up a lot of space)... but when he ...

How do I get over this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I was seeing this guy for 3 months - we slpit 2 weeks ago. At first it was a casual thing but then we started seein each other more and more. I began to fall for him and wanted more commitment and I think this scared him as he finished things. The ...

How can I open up and talk to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Me and my lover have been steady and happy for almost a year, but there is a problem. I love what he does to me, but I can't tell him when I want to, or what i want him to do to me. I kinda just hint my way through it, but more often then not, by no ...

Is there a problem here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend says he loves me and says he sees a future with me but doesnt call me much and shows little affection and care.what should i do?and what could be the problem?...

What should I do about this note in which I'm asked for a date and not to tell anyone? A boy gave it to me from behalf of his friend, supposedly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi dearcupid, just hoping you could help me out with this situation... The brief story is that i recieved a letter in one of my classes...It basically was asking me out, for a trip to cinema! However, i am quite confused as to whether its seri...

I don't find him physically attractive, and if it were he and I isolated I wouldn't care but I want my man to be attractive to my friends, as well! Should I consider leaving him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - I have been dating a man for about a month now. When I met him, I was not physically attracted to him, when I got to know him...all of him, I became attracted in other ways. I feel like I'm falling in love with someone that I am not physically ...

Why would she want to cause me any aggro?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - ok, well my life is so confusing right now lol. me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago. i really did like him and bla bla bla so on and so on. well he new girlfriend. i have gym with her so i kno who she is and vice versa. well me and my ex staye...

I'm always playing Gooseberry - how can I trust a man again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi I need help! i feel so lonely and down! All my friends have BFs and im constantly playing goosebery! I try to make excuses not to go out with my friends everyweek because they all bring along ther fellas which i think is great coz we al...

Is he going to surprise me on our anniversary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Saturday my bf and i were shopping and he told me too walk away before he got mad. I knew he wasnt, but i did it to humor him. He was looking at the jewlery and it even looked like the wedding rings section. I did not mean to peek but on Sunday ...

Why do guys flirt and not follow it up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Okay here is my situation. There is a great guy at work that I have always liked, and he's always been really nice and friendly to me too. We occasionally work on projects together. We get along and have fun bantering back and forth. However, over ...

Without him I feel empty. I miss him so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, my ex of eight months dumped me 5 days ago. I am well aware that I'm only 17 years of age but without him I feel empty. He's currently going through a bad time in his life, getting kicked out of his home and his parents telling him that...

Friends for 12 years, and now we're developing stronger feelings. Anybody else experienced this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - We are friends since 12 years ago. We started developing strong feelings for each other last year. I am involved with a friend we both know and love. We live in separate countries so when he comes visit he stays with us. He came visit us last ...

My Online interest told me he loved me after 3 weeks. He already talk of marriage. I really want to meet him, but I live in Wales and he lives in the US...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - hi im part of a teen support online forum. i love it and have great friends on there. i got talking to a guy from texas and we really clicked. after about 3 weeks talking he said he loved me. after a while i said it back as i really liked him. tro...

She just wants to be friends... Is there anything I can do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - me (17) and my ex girlfriend (15) broke up after 9 mouths and 1 fall out 2 weeks before she split up with me. i foght about spending time with each other. i said to spend one day with her for a specail day but she told me that she whats to go ou...

My boyfriend wants a threesome. I want to do this for him, but how do you organize something like this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi My bf and I have been together 18months and are happy he is older then me (he is 31 and im 24) and for this reason and others he seems to be the more outspoken one and I am the one who is lead I kinda prefere to just blend in whereas he likes...

How do I get over my first kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Im 14 and last night me and my friends went to a hotel party, where there were all these older guys who play state footy for melbourne, anyway I started talking to this really hot guy who is 21 and the next thing i know we were kissing and having ...

Should I call him, or leave him forever?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Could you give me an advice? The man i used to date this year he always hasn't enough time to see me. He usually apologised that he was so much occupied with his work which is true in some point. However, the last time i saw him this weekend he said ...

I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

8 October 2007 (M) - hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...

If he knows I like him, will our friendship change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (?) - i like this one guy alot. i always have the urge to talk to him and be with him. but when i picture him as my boyfriend it seems kinda weird. idk if he seems like the kind of person that would be a boyfriend because hes kinda a dork which is exactly ...

Should I try to call him, or wait for him to call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (?) - theres this one guy who i got his number a while ago. we talked to each other alot. he seemed like a nice guy and i liked him. but he stopped calling me all of a sudden. is this a sign that he wants to break up if we were ever together? should i ...

Can it be possible that he really loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 357 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - recently i don't know what to do my ex boyfriend and i dated for 4 years on and off. he always tells me he loves me and that were meant to be and that he cant live with out me. he's cheated on me so many times and even had sex with with many of my ...

My boyfriend and I broke up, I'm 14 and really feel as I'm meant to be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 14 and constantly have recently, (a few months ago) ended a 3 year relationship. Eh we still have feelings for eachother and whatever but I know I should not get involved with him again, and I don't plan to. But I feel like since he has been ...

After our breakup he wants to meet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

8 October 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for about 10 days. We talked once online, he IM me first and it was short. I told him about my weekend and how much fun it was. I had lunch with his mom cause she was concerned about what was going on and we ...