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I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken

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Question - (9 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, *rs. Adrian Wigfall writes:

I'm 15. And I'm in a relationship with this boy for the second time. I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken. What Should I Do? Am I Being A Little Insecure?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007):

I am in the same situation

Im with my bf for the 3rd time, lots of my friends hav started to get mad at me because of the past messy break ups and they say the next time it happens i shouldnt get back together with him.

They bad mouth my bf and I really dont know what to do

He broke up with me twice but he also asked me out again twice.

I dont know what to do, because I feel I cant commit because I dont want to get my heart broken

I also feel that my friends are not their for me when I need them

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (10 May 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntI don't believe you're being insecure, if you have been hurt in the past by this boy he needs to buld up your trust. You arn't doing anything wrong.

Remember - you're young and you should just have fun... Don't fall too deeply and if he's really dependant that this relationship will work, let him work on gettin your trust back if he has caused this mistrust in the past.

Good luck x

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2007):

AskEve agony auntIf I were you I would just enjoy being with him for the moment. Take things very slowly with him and get to know him much better. Don't sleep with him as long as you're feeling this way,(you're also still under the age of consent anyway so it's against the law). Once you DO sleep together then that's when your emotions will really kick in. Wait until you both know one another far better. In the meantime enjoy just hanging out together and keep things between you light. Let HIM do the chasing and make sure you still have time to go out with your other friends. You will see in time and as your relationship grows whether or not he really has deep feelings for you.


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