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anonymous
writes:Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. she said she would break up with him for me but once her parents found out they forbid her from seeing me. her parents have spoken to alot of her friends and even a few of our teachers to let them know if they saw us together and if her parents find out we are still friends then they have threatened us with moving her out of state to live with relatives which is overkill. i feel as though the only option is to meet her parents but when i discuss this with my girl she says i shouldnt even talk with her parents and that she wants me to just be her dirty little secret but as much as i love her i dont think its what i want. if anybody has any ideas as to what i should do please im begging you for help. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 May 2007):
 I'd throw all my effort into improving my school work and thus improving your record. Get your grades up, sign up for extra curricular activities...just get involved. When her mother notices the change then maybe she'll decide to let you see her daughter. If you sneak around behind her back you'll really blow any chance of parental approval. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionher parents dont like me because her mother works for the schools and has seen my record which isnt very bad but i have my regrets about it. i've been in alot of relationships the longest of which lasted 2 years and i feel like she's the one idk how i know but ive never fealt this way about any other girl before and i really want this to work but i have no idea how i should procede.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 May 2007):
 Wow, why is it her parents forbid you to see her? Sounds pretty major? If they have their reasons, I suppose there's not much you can do... parents reign at your age. You are young and I promise you that more women will come along.
Sorry, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 May 2007):
Why is it that her parents don't want you seeing their daughter?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007): I know this sounds harsh and blunt - but at your age you will not really understand what it is to be in 'love'.If she really wanted to be with you she would - her parents could not make her want to be with this other guy - so I would move on. You deserve better.
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