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*eordeGirl
writes:I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on March 10th. It was painful but as time went on it got easier. Since then, we have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful. Most times he can't even get half way in because it hurts too much and even hurts him sometimes. We have tried different types of lubrication and condoms but nothing seems to make it any easier. I am always completly relaxed and at ease with him so why is this happening to me? Please help!
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (30 May 2007):
 i couldn't agree more with what CD is saying. i think yr problem is more to do with relaxing than anything else. don't think about sex to much the next time your together just enjoy each others company. and when you try to have sex again make sure that YOUR body is ready aswell.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (10 May 2007):
 Sometimes when you're trying too hard to feel relaxed you're actually more tense than you know and having read your post it strikes me that it may be your problem. You think you're relaxed, maybe you are, but maybe you want to be relaxed so much that you are mentally but not physically. If he has penetrated you completely at least once then it's also possible that your hymen hasn't broken completely and is causing irritation. Have a quick chat with your doctor who can probably advise you further.
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