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She wanted me to choke her during sex as she said it heightened her orgasm!!!!

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Question - (9 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *teven 25206542 writes:

i am not bragging here but i do consider myself to know a bit about sex but a week ago i met a women who asked me to start choking her during sex this is... well very weird to me but i did it, anyway afterwards she said it hightens people's orgasm. Can anyone explain this and if it works explain the technique

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007):

I'm a woman who enjoys being choked when on the brink of orgasm. The first time I asked for it it was in the heat of the moment but as I was about to cum and his hands tightened on my neck, he went deeper inside me and I swear, that orgasm was delightfully intense. Even as I write this I can still feel the moment - and its been at least a month since it happened. I don't always want it but when I do, I ask and receive :). Be sure you trust your partner so he knows your tolerance level and knows when to stop and how hard to squeeze.

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A male reader, steven 25206542 United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2007):

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steven 25206542 agony auntthanks for the replys i was expeting some people to find this quit weird but am glad some people were mature enoth for to give me an honist answer to be honist tho it did bring her orgasm to a very high stander so much that she squirted if this skill is actually that good i think i will have to experiment with it but that will have to be when i am whith a partner who trust me i would hate to do this wrong and actually end up hurting the other person

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A female reader, Calli Canada +, writes (10 May 2007):

Calli agony auntThe practice is called erotic asphyxiation, while some consider it to be sensual and highly gratifying, it is seen as dangerous by others. Physically, as the body reaches a state of asphyxia more endorphins are produced causing a sense of increased pleasure.

Before engaging in it, communicate about it further. Find out why it turns her on so much, and what aspect of it makes her juices flow. Remember, the act of choking one's partner may be seen as erotic, but in the heat of the moment, it is possible to get carried away. Make sure you're absolutely comfortable with the idea first.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2007):

cd206 agony auntIt is said to work, from the people who survive attempting it. The important thing to remember is that people have died through this particular sex game and it is really dangerous. Personally I have never felt the need to practise this so don't know about the proper technique but make sure that if you do decide to do it that you're well informed of the risks.

CD

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