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writes:i was seeing a guy for 2 months and we only split as i wanted a relationship.. but he wasnt ready for one....since then he has seen someone else but has now split with her and started talking to me a lot more... complimenting me and asking to meet up! we are good friends and meet once a week anyway, but i get the impression he is looking for more....i'm still very fond of him and havent found any1 new to help me move on...would it be best if i ignored my feelings and stayed away... ex's are ex's for a reason right???? although i think in our case it was just bad timing :S
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (10 May 2007):
 If the basis of your split can be talked about and you are both looking for the same thing, i see why not. Sometimes partners split, it happens.
Everyone can learn from their mistakes, and I am a true believer that everyone is worth a second chance if the feelings and commitment are there.
Just be sure you both are on the same page and dont make the same mistake twice.
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reader, Maryann6873  +, writes (10 May 2007):
He's a player. He's not ready for a relationship and you are just going to get hurt. Don't go back and forth, you only end up getting yourself in a rut and you may not be able to stop. You don't know what he's telling this other girl and she doesn't know what he is telling you. You're better off leaving. Two months is not a long time and it will take a much shorter time to get over him. The longer you continue the relationship, the more difficult it will be to move on. I let my relationship go for three years and ended up pregnant and now he's doing this same thing to me - he has also done something similar in the past and I was too naive to leave and stay away then. You need to move on - find someone new to date - or just be single for a while. Us women really need to stick together when it comes to womanizers like these guys.
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