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writes:how do you know when your really in love with someone? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time if you count the on and offs. We say we love each other on the phone and he does really care for me and is sweet and has done nothing wrong that i know of at least.But i find myself stuck thinking and feeling that i dont really love him nor even may like him like that for that matter anymore. Some facts are that i am only 17 ill we both will be starting college soon. Not that looks have anythang to do with it but i am attractive and well he isnt the nicest looking person out there but his personality is sweet.so i think that might be a little shallow. I dont know what to do somtimes i miss him other times i cant stand him and dont want to be bothered with him.please help Reply to this Question
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reader, penta  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 Do you like the person you are when you're with him? Do you want only the best for him? Does the thought of spending your future with him somehow feel right? Can you see yourself being old together?
If you can say yes to these questions, then you're in love with him.
But I wouldn't worry. You've got a lot of years ahead of you. If this isn't the guy, then you will. He's out there. Take it slow and see where things go. If this is your guy, then things will work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): to be honest it sounds like this relationship is just to pass the time. on and offs? you're not even sure if you like him? you're wasting time, when you are with someone that you really do click with it can be SO much better. so why waste your time with someone so-so when you can be with someone who is really great for you? life is too short to settle for 'ok'. go for gold! it's worth it.
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