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writes:My girlfriend of 2 years and I have been fighting alot lately. We can't seem to get along and not argue for more than a day. She says lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood. I really want this to work but I am not sure on what to do next. Or where we would start to fix this. Reply to this Question
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (6 July 2007):
I agree with Danielepew, it looks like you 2 are finished. If there was a particular thing that was causing this trouble, you would have mentioned it. As there isn't, what can you fix? You just don't get on any more. It's painful, but its how relationships often end.
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Hi babe, trust me u need space apart. me and my bf have been together a year and its the exact same, and argument at least every day if not more.. and i cry every day for many reasons.. you need to have time apart, wether this means u see each other less times a week or you dont see each other for a specfic amount of time.. hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x
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reader, Sienna  +, writes (6 July 2007):
Hey there, as a chicky I can guarantee your doing something to upset her even if it's uninentional. If you have been together for a few years now, just do a self check make sure your still keeping it alive so to speak. The special thing you did when you first got together. Be affectionate and initiate it too.Really ask her what is wrong and tell her she can tell you whatever it is. And don;t get angry and shoot defensive comments if she does even if you feel what she is saying is unfair. No matter how angry you feel if she is argumentitive with you stay calm and don't fire up. Try that out and especially try find why she is frustrated and angry. Could be so many different things just in her life in general. If that doesn't work have a break for 1-2 weeks with no contact maybe you both just need time to see how you both really feel. Ciao
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reader, nologo  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Does she want you to start to fix it?
From what she says the answer is "no".
"lately being around me makes her angry and in a bad mood"
It sounds like she is pushing you to end this relationship.
You should confront her now to make things a bit more clear.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Well, I don't think there's hope in this one. If you cannot be together anymore, I guess the logical step is to finish the relationship.
If I were you, I would walk away for a while, not telling her anything. If she doesn't show up, well, you'll know what to expect.
My experience is, never push things.
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