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writes:Sometimes I feel so in love with my girlfriend I could burst.Other times I feel like I really can't be arsed. I know that I love her and she's just perfect. But I can't help how I feel. Is expecting to feel "bursty" 100% of the time unrealistic? Reply to this Question
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reader, laseeker  +, writes (6 July 2007):
Hi, well I'm not absolutely sure but I don't think anyone could feel that "in love" or bursting full of excitement feeling all the time. I'm not sure what you meant by you feel arsed. Sorry I never heard of that word. I could add more if I knew what you meant you felt. I've a younger man bf who constantly says he loves me and talks of marriage but he's such a disagreeable type that my feelings of love have deminished. And so I'm at a cross roads of what to do now. Anyways getting back to you; I'd say your feelings are pretty normal. I kind of think if you spend tons of time with a person then you will feel not excited all the time.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Do you see a future with your girlfriend? Do you want to be with her?
I have times where I cant be "arsed" with my partner and I put it down to being comfortable around him. I don't need to hold his hand or hug him every moment we are together.
I don't feel "bursty" all the time, but when I do its magical especially now we are having a baby together. Obviously that isn't a suggestion that you should do that.
Try and forget about not feeling bursty all the time. You sound happy with her and that you do want to be with her. Don't let a little niggle destroy what you have :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): A man's love for a woman is kind of like turning on and off a faucet. Where sometimes she get water,love,from a man, But quite often the faucet is emotionally dry, because no man, or woman, can keep their passion like a roaring fire all of the time. Love is also like the tide that ebbs and flows. And yet we know that tomorrow that love will be there for us. Your normal, But you need to learn how to relax with your gf and enjoy each other.
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