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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...

What can I do to make him more relaxed and comfortable about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for the past month and everything's been fine apart from one big problem, he hasn't cum and I told him I had but in fact I hadn't. I dunno what to do cos he's getting really worried about ...

Can anyone give me ideas about how not to screw things up when I'm dating a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - I was at a party at the weekend and I saw this girl I fancied. I was so close to asking her out but my mind kept saying "no don't do it." The reason for this is that, last March, I had my one and only girlfriend (well a date) and we went out on t...

Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I have a big relationship problem. I have known this guy for several years and we have dated on and off... Last summer it got very serious and then he went away to college. Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident. ...

She doesn't ever flirt with me but my girlfriend thinks she will make a move on me. Am I wrong to talk to her? What should I do as I like her as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm new here so be kind! Well, I'm 20 years old and have had a girlfriend for almost a year! We're really close, still both live with our parents but spend most of our time together. We do virtually everything together and share only a few...

I feel that is my fault and I should probably cut all ties no matter how much I love her and miss her. What do you guys think...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi all.. I'm very new here. I have an issue with relationships. They all end the same way. I just recently was engaged and I have always treated my women like gold. I am very loving, caring, romantic, affectionate and down to earth. My woman...

What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...

My girlfriend is an alcoholic who never has time for me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - my girlfriend is an alcholic and says she loves me and wants to spend time with me but always uninvites me to events she's asked me to go with her , won't let me come with her to do things an will only spend time with me for maybe 3hours per week i ...

My friend is jealous of all the attention I am getting from boys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I am 13. And I recently spilt up with my bf. After i dumped him because i thought he was a bit possesvive but we are still friends. But he still fancies me and so do other 2 other boys and my best friend is getting all jealous because of all the ...

I want to feel loved and when we just get right to the sex I dont, so I end up crying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Ok here it goes. For the last few months now, I notice that if I go to my boyfriend's place and he just tells me to get naked and lay down because he wants to play with me, I end up crying during sex. If we make out and work into touching, f...

I dont want my relationship ruined over alcohal, and I am not sure she would be willing to stop dirnking for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - hi there. i have a girlfriend, whom i've been dating for 7 months. just recently we had both, quit drinking for two months and it was wonderful. last night she had decided to drink seven beers, and now im afraid that all the raging alcoholism is ...

My girlfriend has a drink problem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, My girlfriend whom I've been dating for 7 months now has a drinking problem. Everytime she drinks, I will feel obligated to drink because I can deal with the drunken issues so much better when I am a little buzzed myself. Just recently, we had ...

My boyfriend wants to have a baby with me but I'm only 15!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have a baby with me, I also want one but I feel that I am too young. please help me. ...

Should I let the past go in order to experience the best relationship I have ever had, or do I have a right to be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Should I stay or go?? I have been with boyfriend for a year now and it is the greatest relationship I have ever had. To me, he is a caring, beautiful person who generally always considers me. However, we have been honest with each other about our ...

Do I try to ignore her hoping she'll come when she sees sense and has to make decisions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Please help. I'm a little confused. Have just shut off contact with a girl who I had an affir with (I'm single she's in an unhappy relationship, no kids don't live together etc but feels trapped by everone elses expectations). Thing is I love her ...

Am I first in his life or is his ex more important to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hey Everyone, Just wanted to write to you and probably get it off my chest and ask for a little advice from a wide range of people! It's probably gonna be a long one, so mind me! first off, my family hasn't been so good lately, just lots o...

I've now changed my views about marriage and would like to get married some day, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and, on the whole, we have a great relationship. We both love each other, respect each other and mainly want the same things out of life. We have lived together for 3 years and just bought our first ...

I discovered pictures of an ex, over 4 years ago I believe which were all of her in posing in underwear.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi There I am writing as in a new relationship - 4 months ish. I am totally infatuated with this guy and he seems just as keen but something is still niggling at me all the time telling me I couldn’t be as lucky to get someone I like this much l...

I don't find sex fulfilling with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - First I want to apologize for my English.. Here is my problem - I have a boyfriend, who loves me very much, he is very kind and handsome but unfortunately I can't take pleasure in sex. Why is that?! In fact I'm really scared of a serious relation...

I'm terrified I won't be able to have a baby in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm 17, I don't want a baby yet but I just want to ask a question. I've always worried that when I decide to start a family with my boyfriend [in about 7 years or something] that I won't be able to have children. I don't know why I worry so much ...

How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter ...

I am torn between the 2 loves of my life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi guys, I have a question, I am torn between the 2 loves of my life, I am deeply in love with my girl (let's call her J) and then I dumped her and now I am with another girl (let's call her S) but I want my old girl friend (J) back but don't want ...

We've done most things, "sexually" together, except actual intercourse. I'm a virgin and he's only had sex once, through peer pressure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 months but I've known him a few years. We're both completely comfortable with each other and we feel that we love each other and we actually want a future together. We've done most things, "sexuall...

We're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend love each other loads but the problem is we're always arguing over stupid little things and it gets to the point where I slap him and I hate doing it but he gets me so angry. He blames everything on me but I hate the arguing, it ...

How can I let my mum see we're meant to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm 13 and I met this boy who lives in my street, when I first met him we just clicked. We went out a few times and when I kissed him it felt so right but he is 15 but he is so nice to me. My mum has told me to keep away from him as she thinks he ...

My girlfriend is worried about her friendship with her best friend (who just happens to be my ex) and I'm stuck in the middle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Okay, this one's complicated I went out with this girl and it didn't work and she dumped me, now I'm going out with her best friend. My ex has gone weird and told my girlfriend she doesn't want to have anything to do with her. I'm worried that ...

I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I'm really down, I know I need to move on, but I really love this guy and I keep thinking when he comes to his senses he will come back. I met this guy just before Christmas 2006, we talked on the phone a few times then I said about meeting for a dr...

I'm at my wits end over this... WHO DO I CHOOSE???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - My marriage of 12 years broke down and as soon as I was financially stable enough I moved out to give our relationship complete space. I had never lived on my own before and found it quite a struggle emotionally. I met up with my husband once a ...

I met up with my ex again and all the feelings came back but I haven't heard from him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been ...

I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all I like both of them but I don't know wha...

He said my counselling is bad for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Months ago, I hit rock bottom. I was depressed and was dumped over MSN by my ex of 2 years. I always take things to heart what people say about me or think about me. I recently celebrated my 6 months anniversery with my boyfriend of 6 months and he ...

He was talking emotionless and in a very formal way. Does this mean he no longer cares?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Dear all, Yesterday I was really shocked and I thought of sharing it with you, maybe I'm wrong? I'm 23 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we're planning to get engaged by year end. My boyfriend joined the military ...

He's changed since he came back from his 40 day vacation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 months, he left for vacation for 40 days. I saw him before he left and now he's back but he doesn't seem to care about when he can see me again. He keeps getting mad at me lately because I say something ...

Why are guys more likely to commit to an average looking girl and just choose to sleep around with the good looking ones?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Can someone please explain the theory that guys are more likely to commit to a proper relationship with a less good-looking girl than a very good looking girl and just sleep with the really good looking ones but never have a proper relationship with ...

I finished with my boyfriend and have since found out I'm pregnant, how can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. I left him for his cousin and it wasn't working out, plus I found out that I'm pregnant and that it's most likely his child.(my ex) I want him back. Will he take me back? How can I get him back?...

How can I get my boyfriend's attention and get him to do his fair share around the house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - How can one get their boyfriend's attention? I live with mine, and his attention is always diverted into things he wants to do or watch. I feel enslaved to the house duties thus feel more like a slave than a girlfriend. In what ways can I turn ...

Why did he think I was faking my illness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship of 4 years with this guy. He does what he wants and gets what he wants. When he was sick I took care of him. When I strained my neck one time and couldn't move or get up from the sofa or bed saying that I can't move, he ...

I feel very insecure about myself just now and worry when my boyfriend goes out of town with his job...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years and we have a son together. I have gained weight. He has a job that means he works out of town a lot and I know when he is out of town, he goes out with the people he works with. He is a very fli...

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...

Will my vagina loosen the more I have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. I lost my virginity to him when I was 13 and we've had sex about. . . . Um let's just say we lost count. But we do it a lot and I'm scared my (thing) will get loose.... and I don't want to stop ...

Are there any tips you can give me on seperating the guys at clubs who want just sex and ones who might be looking for more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Ive just come out of a really bad relationship where I was treated really badly. My friends invited me clubbing this weekend with them, which I have only ever done once because my ex boyfriend wouldn't let me go unless he was with me, and he hates ...

How do I deal with the insecurities I have before geting back into another relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Ive always had bad insecurities and have depended on other people to make me feel good about myself. This includes my ex bf...but I broke up with him earlier this week and I feel un loved and dont like myself. How do I deal with the insecuriti...

He stops when he is about to cum.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend, and the thing is that I get wet a lot. He stops when he is about to cum, and I want him to cum. But I also don't want to get pregnant, we don't use proctection, but we do everything else. I also enjoy it from the back, but I ...

Did i cross the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - I feel like I'm going crazy! I was looking at the myspace page of one of my fiance's friends, and he wrote something about having fun dancing with her at a bar and put baby at the end. She is way younger than him, and I know they are just friends, ...

Why does he not come and see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 388 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - ive just split up with my boyfriend of 4 years im not really too bothered because hes found somebody else so im moving on too, my ex from years ago and i had a steamy night a couple off weeks ago but now hes keeping his distance although he txts me ...