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Why did he think I was faking my illness?

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Question - (16 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am in a relationship of 4 years with this guy. He does what he wants and gets what he wants. When he was sick I took care of him. When I strained my neck one time and couldn't move or get up from the sofa or bed saying that I can't move, he said I was faking because he didn't believe me, it took his parents to look at me to show that I wasn't faking it. What does this mean towards this relationship?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007):

He sounds too selfish to care for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007):

Hi love,

It sounds a little more than selfish to me, saying that some men and I say some just incase I get hate mail...just cant handle it when there partner is ill they dont no how to make it better so would rather it wasnt there if you get me...You said he does what he wants and gets what he wants,so maybe when your ill he cant rely on you, Hunny you have to try and do what you want to in a relationship, Its a two way deal, plus love if you do everything for someone they get used to it and maybe start just expecting it, WHATS IN THIS FOR YOU? Think a little more about you love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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