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I'm dating 2 girls just now, one very good looking and one NOT good looking. Who should I choose?

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Question - (16 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *ude81109 writes:

I'm 13 and I'm stuck between two girls. I am dating one and she is beautiful and nice but her dad hates me and the other one is sweet and one of the nicest girls I've met but she isn't good looking at all

I like both of them but I don't know what to do? I am also getting tired of girls completly and considering taking a break what should I do? Who should I choose?

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A male reader, madmaxx  +, writes (16 August 2007):

Take a moment, close your eyes and think who you enjoy being with, talking too, doing things with and just generally having as a friend than open your eyes. But don't lead them both on.

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntYou shouldnt just choose one because she is attractive and beautiful, looks arent everything. I do agree with Lethal Injection, its unfair to both girls, you are seeing both of them at the same time. I would walk away from both of them because you are confused and you may regret choosing the 'wrong one' and its unfair to that girl. Let them find someone else and you do the same, but you need a break and think first.

Take care xxxx

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A female reader, LethalInjection-x United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2007):

LethalInjection-x agony auntIt's unfair on both girls that you're dating another girl at the same time as them, I personally would find it insulting. If they find out about the other girl they would probably take it personally, and wonder what they haven't got that the other girl has, which could lead to them having low self esteem and confidence problems later on.

Appearances shouldn't come into the decision, the most beautiful and attractive people can have horrible personalities.

If you can't choose between them, maybe you don't really like either enough to date properly, maybe you should give it a rest and take a break from girls? No one can decide who to choose or whether to dump both or not except you, as only you know how you feel.

Make a decision soon though, because if one finds out about the other, they're likely to tell the other, causing them both to dislike you, and you may even get known as a player.

xx

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