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Archived questions from: 22 August, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it worth carrying on? I can't bear the thought of life without him again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Dear all, I'm hoping for some geniune logical advice to this problem. I wrote some time ago now, of my relationship with a man, now of 3 years plus, whose wife was a friend of mine, and sadly died 4 years ago. Me and him became friends, both ver...

I'm jealous of his ex girlfriend. How do I get over her and the time they spent together? How can I feel like I don't have to compare myself with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 26 and I'm jealous of his ex girlfriend. They met in college and dated for 3 years! He even proposed to her before she moved away! They never set a date and he didn't give her a ring... He has been broken up with her for ...

Could these stupid thoughts be part of any pregancy horomones or period horomones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half months maybe a little longer, we're really madly in love, to me he's perfect, everything I want in a guy, I want to spend my life with him but just recently I had these thoughts telling me I don't lo...

His close galpal makes me angry and jealous..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years who I am extremely happy with has a close friend who is a girl who "all the guys love" I'm jealous of her and dislike her @ the same time but he doesn't know it..what do i do? everytime she is brought up i am angered....

What are your thoughts on a 15 year age gap online relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Anyone can tell me their opinion about a 15 yr old age difference relationship i.e 17, 32 (older male) views from the male side are appreciated (even female), and what if the meeting was from internet that started as a joke and then became a serious ...

What can I do to hint to him that I like him without saying it, outright?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I really like this boy who lives across the road from me. However, he has a girlfriend. On one occasion he told me that he liked me, but, as I was worked up about a personal family matter, I think i said probably said no, although i can't really ...

She dumped me! Should I ask her for an explanation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - After a Two and a half month relationship with my girlfriend she has dumped me by text, no explanation either just You're dumped in capital letters and no calls and I can't get hold of her it happened last night and we were going fine then this ...

I wrote him an email and he hasn't answered yet..does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I wrote an email to a guy I like asking him to the park a few days ago and he hasn't answered yet. Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore?...

Should I wait to find out if he feels the same as me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 415 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I am friends with this guy and I have been for a while but some say he likes me as more than a friend. I keep going on and off him because of circumstances but I don't want to make a move inc ase I jeopardise what we already have. Should I just go ...

The guy I'm seeing had to move away and now he's having doubts about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - After 6 months together, my boyfriend had to take a job 1000 miles away. From the beginning he said he wanted to stay together, exclusive, and after I'm done with grad school he hoped I'd move out there with him. Slowly I let myself become ...

He's straight and I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 414 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hey:-) Theres a straight guy Im in love with -Im certain- but i dont know if he is straight? And its like he's interested, sometimes but its like he is scared of people and what they might think of him. I really love this guy and I think we will ...

I almost kissed someone else, do I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I am in love with my current girlfriend and we have been together for a little over a year, i went out with some friends and got really drunk, i ended up dancing with this girl, normal flirting, and at the end of the night i almost kissed her, ...

Why am I feeling like I'm losing interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Okay so I have this friend and we've been friends for over a year now. Well the whole time I've known him, he's had a girlfriend. A few weeks ago, he dumped her and asked me to go out with him. I accepted and we have been together since the 7th. ...

Why did he leave me after all we've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have been with this guy for six years and some months and 2 days ago he told me he didn't want me. We have been though a lot... I even cheated on him and got pregnant and he was still there for the baby and I and now he is leaving me for stupid ...

I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend. We have done it before and she liked it but now she won't. It is my favorite by far and I really really like doing it. Like 1 or 2 times a month would be great but she just says I'm sorry. I ...

I still love him and I'm pretty sure he still loves me but I have this feeling and he has brought it up before too that maybe we should break up because of this. I can't imagine my life without him but in a way I think I'm ready for it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and we have lived together the entire time we have been dating, I would consider this a serious reltionship. He is 26 and I am 21 so he is at an age where he is ready to settle down, have kids, get ...

I could re-located but I am concerned whether it is really ME that he wants - or if he just needs some arms around him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has moved about 250 miles away and he had been planning a relocation for years before meeting me. He wants me to be with him and says how much he loves me but I feel some things he has said are odd. When I asked him early on in the ...

He wants me to tell him my fantasies but I have no idea where to start or what to say!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend and I have a slightly skewed kind of relationship; in that we can talk and share our secrets quite easily with each other and we both enjoy sex with each other, but that's kind of the only intimacy existing here. I'm 21 and this is ...

My girlfriend always flirts with everyone and doesn't seem to get the point of if we are together she shouldn't (or does that sound protective)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 383 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My girlfriend always flirts with everyone and doesn't seem to get the point of if we are together she shouldn't (or does that sound protective) but anyway I don't like the fact she flirts and if I do she does get really paranoid and starts a fight ...

I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we see each other he just isn't as excited anymore that I'm coming to visit. How do I get my relationship back on track and get that spark back into our lives.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 409 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and recently he has told me that he loves me and wants to make the relationship work but doesn't feel the same passion that he used to. I live in NYC and he is in Philly and that sometimes when we ...

I checked her phone and found explicit sexual texts from a couple of guys, one who I had met in my/our home.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I'm a 55 year old man and I've been in a relationship with a woman 25 years younger for the last 10 years we live together and have an 11 month old boy. Recently her behaviour was particularly guarded towards her mobile phone, constant buzzing of ...

Will I be with her long term? One of my mates told me it's just good "experience" and builds "character".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I'm in school in England and have this great girlfriend that I love loads... It's just I was thinking is there any point in our relationship? A couple years from now if we haven't broken up we'll probably be going to different uni's or something, ...

I've practically begged him back and he says he doesn't know what he wants anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (?) - Hello, I'm so down and don't know what to do. I have never handled breakups well but recently my boyfriend of a year and a half finished with me and told me he didn't want to work at 'us' anymore because we just argued too much. It's true we di...

If he loves me why is he cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I love my first boyfriend very much but I don't know if he loves me that much, because he cheats on me which I've not got him red-handed but have been informed. Any time I confront him on this issue he denies. I tried breaking up ...

My ex has been telling my friend he really misses me. Thing is, I feel I've moved on, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - long story short: With my ex for well over a year, we argued a lot, split a lot. A couple of weeks ago he ended it for good, and I thought it was really over this time (as it has been for over 2 weeks) then today my friend shows me messages...

I received a text from my girlfriend to say "you're dumped", no explanation, nothing, she won't answer my calls. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I had been with my girlfriend for exactly two months OK things have been a bit rocky from time to time due to her mental health problems that she assured me she was over the worst of them at the begining of the relationship and in that time she has ...

Will she be an unfaithful girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I'm wondering if my girlfriend is the type of girl to cheat... she is always telling me about her old boyfriends and how many she has had, and they're ALWAYS calling her and msging her on myspace and whatnot. She also tells me about how a lot of g...

What are the chances of seeing her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I was filling my car up with petrol yesterday and as i was walking in the shop to pay for it this girl/woman was coming out. As i was approaching i noticed she looked like an angel, she looked absolutely beautiful, everything that i would choose in ...

Will my spiderveins scare her off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - Alright so i recently started dating a girl, and although she's realy nice i have to admit she is shallow too. which is worrying me because she wants me to go swimming with her, and i have a bit of a stomach(i'm not fat, but i do have a little b...

Do guys prefer innocent or not so innocent girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I'm wondering do guys prefer innocent looking girls or girls who dont look so innocent? It seems to me that guys only like girls who dont look innocent. I myself look really innocent and this annoys me because guys seem to not go for me, they go ...

I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over but I don't know if I believe him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I just don't feel my boyfriend loves me, but he keeps on saying it over and over, but simple things he does makes me think and wonder does he really loves me. I've been hurt very bad with my previous boyfriend but I still thinks about him each and ...

Why does she lie to me constantly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - I'm going out with this wonderful lady I really love her and she loves me too but she lies a lot and that is my problem She once told me she borrowed money from her friend but one time I had a chat with the friend and I got told no, she did not ...

Is there anyone that can help me come to grips with the fact that I am in a meaningless relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Is there anyone that can help me come to grips with the fact that I am in a meaningless relationship? There is no affection or closeness. The son of a bitch wants to pull me around like a dog on a leash and I want to do my own thing. Because love ...

My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls every now and again. He doesn't have a wandering eye at all, he just says sweet stuff to other girls.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hey My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls every now and again. He doesn't have a wandering eye at all, he just says sweet stuff to other girls. And what he says seems very very harmless to me, but I want the opinion of guys to see if there ...

Does anyone have any ideas where to find good guys? And how can I date one safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I would really like to date and hang out with different guys and get to know different people, but I can't seem to find a good guy. A lot of guys I attract are much older than me and it would make me uncomfortable to date someone almost the same ...

I sometimes get shy and can't look a guy in the face for a long time without looking away because I feel like he would judge me or something.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade and I was just wondering if it was normal that I get shy if I have to be around a lot of hot boys at once without my friends around? I sometimes get shy and can't look a guy in the face for a long ...

Does anyone have any tips to get rid of shyness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - Hi... I am a 17 year old guy, I am extremely shy... I get very nervous (clammy hands, starting to sweat) when I start talking to girls... There's thoughts in my mind like "I'm gonna mess up" or "What if she doesn't like me?" Are there any tips to ...

I am 18 and he is 23, what can I do in the bedroom to make him want me as much as I want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he only wants sex about twice a week where I want it about 3-4 time a week. I am 18 and he is 23, what can I do in the bedroom to make him want me as much as I want him?...

Does love fade away that easy or is it even true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - How do I know that she still love me? Well it all started at church school. When I first noticed her[she 13 and I'm 14].. so one month passed and I ask her out. She said yes.. and so it's been 2 months already.. we done a lot of things together, ...

Anybody got any ideas on how I can improve myself so girls don't use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - Hi, basically, I don't know what to do with myself, the past few years I've used MSN as a way to get to know girls, girls that I went to school with etc, but I always seemed to be the guy they loved to talk to, but would always go out and get with ...

We used to make love every day but now he won't let me near him and I don't think I can cope any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 15 years. To start with we made love without missing a single day for 7 years. Then things started to dwindle and we went 4 years without making love, but when I recently mentioned this he vehemently denied this ...

I'm attracted to a 13 yr old girl! How do I stop this urge?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - Ok this is going to sound wierd and make me sound creepy and like a pedophile. I'M NOT!! I am attracted to a 13 year old girl. I am 17. How do I stop my urges toward a girl this age? I mean I have always dated younger girls but never one 4 years ...

He won't tell the ex-family to quit harassing him. He just says its better to ignore it all. It's impacting our relationship, and I want it to stop.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We were friends several years before that. He was in an unhappy and sometimes violent marriage and they were always seperating and trying to work things out. His family hated her very much, she ...

Ditch the boyfriend or my new love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - heres the deal i have a boyfriend lets call him computer-mad hes so sweet and handsom but he never want to spend any time with me so now im totally and utterly in love with ...abbs-and-bum he is strong manly and 16 i dont no why i like him but i ...

No matter what I do I end up single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - so pretty much my life i think is at the low and i dont know if it can get any better i try so hard to be the best i can but nothing comes of it...all i want is to be happy and spend my days with a girl that i can treat like every girl dreams of ...