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writes:Hi I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago but I still felt really strongly about him and I'm pretty sure he still felt the same about me. We broke up over something stupid and we were both idiots for not dealing with it. Anyway he has been texting me and stuff over the past few months being sweet and casual. I think we were both pretty unsure about how to confront each other about what happened or we were unsure how the other felt? That's what I think anyway. Ok so I met him at the weekend and he came over to me and we were talking and we ended up getting together. As soon as he had started talking to me I knew that he still liked me and I felt the same so it was great, felt really good, but since then (I know it was only a few days ago) I haven't heard from him? I was sure we were gonna start things up again? Is it possible he's waiting for me to get in touch with him? Or doesn't wanna come on too strong? I guess I can be hard to read sometimes?? I know you could say he was just using me for the night, but I honestly can't believe he'd do that? We had something really special and I knew the way he looked at me that he still had feelings? Any ideas??? I'm going crazy!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree in hindsight that was a mistake especially when things are still unclear between us. Just kindof happened. Hope it works out , I'm sick of playing it cool though....but all i can do now is wait and let him come to me I think??!
Thanks!!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Thats something then!
BUT if i were you, i would hold off on the sleeping togther thing, which i expect wll be difficult, until he has said about getting back together, or i can see you feeling a tad used & that will definately send him the wrong messages.
Good luck!
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Sorry for late reply, yep I did text a casual message and he texted back also casual messages, he was just asking was I gonna be out this weekend so I think we will probably (hopefully) meet up again and I'll get a better idea of whats going on??? Ill keep you posted. Fingers crossed!!Thanks!xxx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (16 August 2007):
Oh well, thats strange then. Couple of years ago me & an ex spent a couple of weeks txting & met up for a drink once to see if we wanted to get back together, but he is one of those guys that doesnt know what he wants when hes drunk. We came back after being in a club then it was 2 weeks of txting after that. By the end of the 2nd week i knew it was a no go, he hadnt really changed either. We had been split nearly 2 years.
Did you try txting him today?
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyep there was alcohol involved but neither of us were drunk at all. also we have been texting and stuff when we were completely sober so i dunno if thats it? i never said anything to him that night about getting back together so i definitely didnt pressure him or anything. There was no awkwardness the next day it just was very natural..
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (16 August 2007):
Hi
I dont expect he was using you (if you're sure he isnt capeable of that) Maybe he is having second thoughts about getting back together. Was there any alcohol involved the night you got together?
I would bung him a casual txt & see if he replies.
C xxxxx
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