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anonymous
writes:hi i broke up with my boyfriend 3 year ago and it has took me this long to find some one else but there is this guy he is really sweet but i just dont know what to do as i have two boys and i dont want to get hurt and i dont want my two boys to get hurt so i need some help please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): To love is not just to feel the happiness, the love is pain and difficulty. Everybody was hurt not just you, I know that somewhere still needs your love. You will find the right guy someday.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (4 March 2011):
 It is understandable, and perhaps wise, to approach your next relationship with caution. Just because you are a mother it doesn't mean you are not entitled to a life beyond parenthood. You need to take the dating thing slowly and don't start building a picture of long-term happy-ever-after until you are sure about him. It is ok to go out and have some fun while getting to know each other well. Introduce him to your children only when you feel the relationship has some foundation. There is no reason why they should be included in the early stages of getting to know each other. If he wants to see them then explain that you would prefer not to at this stage. If he is a reasonable man then he will understand. You can conduct your relationship outside the family home in the meantime. Good luck and remind yourself that you deserve to find happiness with someone.
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