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writes:Hi, Mkay so basically I've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasn't my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didn't want to. we eventually broke up because i couldnt take it. Well 3 months later he came back into my life and all my feelings came back. I'm sooo in love with him. Its perfect. except he randomly just decided he didn't want to be with me. Its because i didn't answer a question. He asked my why I was shy when he went down there and I just told him idk and not to worry about it. He said that made him realize we cant b together. He thinks I'm a slut because I've been with other guys.sometimes he tries to hurt me so that I will hate him and leaving will be easier. We have nothing in common. I have no one to talk to about this. I get depressed I guess and I have the hardest time going to school. I don't want to cry anymore. I wanna go a day without missing and crying for him. I don't know how to get over him. someone please tell me what you think. How can i end the pain as quickly as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): This guy clearly has past relationship issues that he has not resolved as he is playing games with who you are as a person and sort of testing you. In addition, any past about another should be disclosed before feelings develop so no one resents the other and judges them which I feel he has did here. This guy is awfully immature, arguably emotionally abusive, and not healthy for own personal well being overall as youre becoming emotionally exhausted to the point of possible depression. You need to break this off, cut him out completely i e block email, phone numbers, and even cut off mutual friends. You have look out for number one here and this is you so you must do what is absolutely necessary to protect yourself from this loser. You will recover from this, each day you will and it will be easier on you if sit and make a logical decision and break it off. Hugs on this :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMkay random question then...if he is only doing this because he knows he has control over me...if i randomly stopped texting him, do you think he would text me? This will sound horrible, but it makes me feel btter that he hasn't gotten over me yet...that he misses me. But i believe your advice is correct. I won't hang out with him. I'll try not to text him...its hard... thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): "He thinks I'm a slut because I've been with other guys."
That means that he has a major problem, not you.
Yes, you may have your problems, but not being a virgin doesn't make you more or less than anyone else out there.
"How can i end the pain as quickly as possible."
Don't see him again.
Tell him that anyone that thinks you are a slut is not respectful enough to be with you.
Learn self respect, work hard at it, and remember that you are a human being deserving of respect, love, and kindness.
Find someone who gives that to you, AND GIVE IT BACK TO THEM AS WELL.
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