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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:This is two related questions is one big question.1) There's this guy I've known for a while but we just recently started talking. He chatted me on Facebook on Tuesday telling me I was cute and asked if I would hook up, and I said I didn't know yet so he asked for my number and we texted once on Wednesday night. He was complimenting me and said we should hang out. He's a player so I know he just wants to hook up, but I just want to hook up too. Is he still interested even though we haven't talked since Wednesday? It's Friday now.2) This guy's best friend, whom I had a huge crush on, used to talk to me all the time but since I started talking to his friend he's been glaring at me and keeps avoiding me. I don't know what his problem is. I texted him and asked if he was mad and he said no but I'm 90% sure that he is. I don't think this guy likes/liked me. But if he did it would make sense with what's happening, because the guy who I want to hook up with was dating this girl that he fell in love with, but they broke up, then the guy who's mad at me went out with the girl whom his best friend was in love with. So maybe the hook-up guy is talking to me as payback because I meant something to his friend?I don't know. sorry for the confusing questions. please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Hi, it's fairly clear that the best friend does not respect you as much because he doesn't want to see you fall for a player, I imagine he thought you were a sensible sort (and sensible is a good thing).
No good comes of hanging out with bad people - admittedly the best friend has a double standard and hangs out with him but he probably thinks it's fine because he is a guym but does not have the some low standards around girls as this player does.
It's interesting that you think something fun or good might come from hooking up with this boy. Good things rarely come from people with bad character traits, just a lot of wasted time and energy. All the best my dear!
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