A co-worker has a crush on me. Is it my turn to pursue him?

A female age , anonymous writes:

I have a question regarding the game of romance. A co-worker has a crush on me. It used to be that he would just stare at me. Next step was going out of his way to walk past my desk, etc. He knows that I have feelings for him also. We doesn't talk much, mainly just eye contact. It's a game, the pursuit is part of the romance and we are both enjoying it. Recently, he has increased the number of times he walks past my desk, but tries to avoid eye contact. He can't always avoid the little smile he makes when doing this though. Sometimes, he will carry his empty coffee cup into my break area rather than his own. Am I interpreting this game correctly thinking he is telling me that it's my move now to pursue him? For example, when he makes it obvious that he's going to the break room?

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