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Super complicated relationship, should I trust her again and give her another chance?

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Question - (23 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2010)
A male Lebanon age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi

well its started we met online on msn, she used to love and tell me that she loves me so much but i was with another girl so i kept blocking her and telling her that i love another girl till a day me and the other girl argued together so i went to her and in my mind i was thinking:"yeah i will chill with her till i get chill i leave her" but we started to chat and everything and she really cared about me and after some time i started to care about her and love her and the love started to get bigger and bigger and bigger till we had a happy relation for like 3-4 months she came to me once and we really liked each others and we did it together and everything,

suddenly going on her facebook and i saw a boy having her pic and his pic in a heart. i said its impossible i will ask her she told me that this boy annoys her and he regrets to remove her pic of his facebook profile she sent me a chat log about that she is arguing with him about the pic i believed because i used to trust her so much,

after couple of days her friend added me ( a girl ) she told me that i'm blind and my GF is cheating on me with the boy on facebook i was like no impossible she told me that he annoys her then she gave me the boy email i spoke to him and saw that her friend is right,so i faced the boy with the truth he didn't believe so he went to her asking her she told him that she never loved me and i keep annoying her so he told me that she said that to him, here i have lost my trust completely in her, so i was like omg i went to her asking her she blocked me so i sent her an email thanking her for our great relation and wishing her luck with her new BF

after she read the msg she unblocked me and started blaming me for her moving on she said that i used to tell her that she spies on me and other unbelievable blames, so i told her thank you then i signed out and left

the next day once i came on she told me my hi hubby i told her no please you are in a relation she told me that i don't want him i want you i was stupid with going with him, the she broke up with him and came back to me

after 1-2 weeks, i caught her cheating on me with a new boy i told her she told me that he is her teddy i argued with her,but the second day she did the same apologized to me and came back to me and i accepted because i love her so much..

after 1-2 weeks, her friend tell me that she denied me in front her old BF i asked her she told me that i this boy blocked her and doesn't speak to her but suddenly the boy send me an email telling me that your GF is with me now so i broke up with her and told her that i don't want to speak to her no more, but after 2-3 days the same thing happened she came back to me asking to forgive her and she wont do anything bad this time and she promised i forgave her and he was back together...

after 1-2 days, her old BF tell me that him and her was flirting on each others and that she was flirting with many boys i told her she told me that she never did that and she loves me and only me and then i told her that okay i believe you but i still suspectious

the question is should i trust her again ? and give her another chance?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2010):

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thank you all i will try to dump her but the problem is that i love her so much

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (23 September 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntC'mon man... this is a no-brainer.

You already know the answer... so just give this girl the boot, block her, delete her, do what you have to do so that she can't keep getting her claws into you again.

You may think that when you take her back each time that she'll respect you more and more... but in reality she respects you less and less. That is a fact.

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A female reader, CuteBabe United States +, writes (23 September 2010):

CuteBabe agony auntI only had to reach half of the story to conclude that she's a playa!! ditch her she just having fun using you and all the other guys out there.. She isn't trust worthy no matter what she says. you don't need her explanation nor do you need us for help:s just forget all about her, you're just wasting your time..Sorry..

Good Luck

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A female reader, samantha7171 Bahamas +, writes (23 September 2010):

All I can say to you is, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. This girl is serious trouble. She don't know what she wants, and she's playing all of you'll for fools. Never allow any body to do that to you. Don't allow any body to walk all over your heart like that. It's obvious that she's not ready to settle down and she get a kick out of runnin from one guy to another. Find yourself a nice decent girl who will love and appreciate you for who you are.

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