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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Only once in my life have I had any significant emotional connection with a woman I've been with.I've been with several women but when we kiss I feel nothing magic, just lips moving. Some very faint connections, and a few light sparks every once in million dates but it quickly fades out. Sometimes they claim to feel something stronger, but I never do. There was one girl several years ago that I had a deep connection with that was instantaneous and so much stronger than any other, and the best part is that it was mutual! Things didn't work out because I was stupid and selfish, but now I feel ready so I keep waiting and waiting and nothing happens. I always trick myself into thinking that I've found that feeling again but I know I'm just fooling myself.I hope I don't sound stuck on an ex. I'm not, I still speak to this woman occasionally and that feeling is gone for both of us. Its not that I miss my ex, I just miss that feeling, and I want to find it again in someone else. I don't know exactly what my question is, I guess...how do I find it again? But I realize I'm asking a question with no known answer... I guess I'm just looking for advice or wisdom, because I want that feeling back in my life but it never comes...
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