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writes:Hey, there's a saying that says "actions speak louder than words"....how true is that?The reason I'm asking is because this guy I used to be involved with earlier this year is a lot more affectionate and intimate in bed than he EVER used to be. Before it was all about the pleasure, and just sex. We'd have sex, do our thing and go to bed. Now, months and months later we start hanging out again, we hung out a few times without things getting sexual. Then last Saturday we hung out just the two of us, watched a few movies and we ended up cuddling. Something we NEVER would do before, we made out, we talked, gave each other massages and then we had sex. But it wasn't like sex just to have sex, it was completely different. Instead, it was the most intimate sexual experience I've ever had. We had sex twice, in between he held me, kissed me all over, we were flirty and tickling each other. He told me how great I am and that I make him feel really good. So does the fact that we had more intimate sex might mean he has actual feelings for me? Or should I see if this is an ongoing thing and keep seeing him to see if his actions are consistent?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the answers guys, but I recently found out that he does want more with me but now its up to me to decide if I want to be with him or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): I doubt it. Guys done tend to feel these amazingly intimate feelings based on sex that happened so easy. I think he was just "practicing" on you so he is better at his shit when a girl he really cares about comes along...
Sorry, I don't mean to be harsh. But, generally it's true for me and all my friends. If you value your body so little that you just give it away like that, he also will tend to have little regard for it as well. You don't need to play games, but you also shouldn't give it ALL away that quickly and easily...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): No! he just picked up some new moves/tactics.
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