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writes:So i've been seeing this guy for quite some time now and i honestly love him, but the sex isnt as good as i imagined, hes about 5-6 inches but i just dont get pleasure unless he slams into me. what can i do to make things better, or even what do i begin to say to him so i dont hurt his pride or something? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Initiate some flirty conversation about both of your deepest darkest sexual fantasies. The say, "hey, why don't we try it". To say most guys would be enthusiastic is an understatement. You could mix I. With these fantasies a description of how you really like sex. For example:
You know,even more than my fantasy of having sex with a matador on a bull during a real buff fight, I would just love to have a slow long sex sessio beginning with candles in the tub. Where we stare into each others eyes for hours, and then passionately make love on the washing machine while it's in the heavy duty tumble cycle
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Maybe you like rougher sex? Try the doggy style position, ask him to grab your hips and push in. This allows him to go deeper. Encourage him too! Ask him to go faster or deeper or both...most guys LOVE that. It shows that you're really into it. Don't be afraid to tell him what pleasures you! Tell him you luv it when he slams into you, how can he get offended by that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): change the position, try different moves, everyman is different, he need to discover the positions and moves that works for you both, also you know that sex feels different when there is emotion
if you choose to leave him, you don't have to mention the real reason (you are not satisfied with sex), you can come up with different reason, you can say it in different way (i'm not into it, i'm not in love, i'm busy, etc)
good luck
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