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writes:I have a girlfriend that is always bored. before i met her i was never going anywhere or doing anything. she likes to do things bt get upset when she ask me what i want to do but i always say i dont know. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 i have the same problem with my boyfriend he always says that to me and i get upset because i dont always want to be the one to make the decisions.she probably wants surprising for you to randomly turn round and go come on im taking you shopping or theatre or cinema or resturant or whatever shel feel like your making the effort to please her.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Google your town or city, find out what the attractions are, especially those that are a little quirky ... make a plan to visit one each month.
Pack lunch and go sit in a park somewhere over the weekend, watch the people walking by or feed the ducks or pigeons.
If your cinema has days where tickets are cheap, go to the movies.
Visit your local museum.
Become a volunteer at your local dog shelter.
Become a volunteer on a telephone crisis line.
Join a social club, learn to play bridge, or lawn bowls, or croquet, or join a book club.
Think outside the square, you will find some of these activities bore you to tears, and some will be so so, others will be a laugh, one or two you might actually enjoy enough to repeat.
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reader, charisma dela cruz  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 maybe you can let your girl experience those things you enjoy doing.. and go exploring the new things for the sake of both of you, if she's bored you must not bored how long does it take for a boring relationship that can be treated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): Well ~ I would make it exciting for her..which ultimately free her of those life detaining chains and allow her to grow..blossom into the lady she is. For example, on a day that both of you are available for pure playtime, awake a bit earlier than she, that is if you two sleepover the prior evening) and have breakfast prepared for her, consisting of her greatest delights..AND be sure not to serve it to her in bed, as this will only make for laziness/demotivation subsequent pampering the tummy so to speak. Serve her with a golden tray with a romantic breakfast on the living floor..picnic style so to speak...champagne glasses for wetting the kissers with orange juice...Ummm nicely chilled vitamin c sugaring her lips...And be certain to have her clothes..ironed and starched..layed out for an easy sleek and slip inside to go...And oh..as for honey dew melon raindrops spoiling her flesh..roll out the red carpet and have the fountain calling her name with towel and slippers awaiting her grand exit.."Surprise Sweetie! I would have never thought you were so aggressive and assertive...Totally kicking my butt with you're hot red bumper car!.."Sure Babe, we can return to this rink next week, BUT be forwarned I don't know if I should love you awake so tenderly as your adventurous side might end as today..exhausted, as you put a sucker punch heck of a fun whipping on me!..And yes, My Love I love how you excite me."~One of the best feelings is bringing out the best of another...aaahhhh, Yes!~
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (31 October 2010):
 Think of some things you can do together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): I'm not sure where you live, but all major cities have activity websites highlighting events happening, that's a sure fire way to seem "in the know" and keep things fresh. Go to a local hotel and look at that giant brochure display for every fun outdoor activity in the area, grab a few of those and plan something. Even just choosing a bar to go drink and hang out at will be nice for her. You chose to take he out and take pride in her around others, you chose when and where. She will appreciate that and know you aren't just cruising through life unfulfilled.
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