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writes:hi im 23 years old and about to get married to my boyfriend. We haven't had sex before.The problem is that i dont know anything about sex, how does this operation start, what happens in it, how does it end, what is the couple doing during it, I know nothing of that, im completely ignorant and he is pro about those things, those things make me stay out all the night, he expects me to be pro, he wants me to be pro, i dont want to let him down in the first time we do sex, i want to make him happy and full of enjoyment, i want that night to be perfect , i should learn everything about sex from the abc and be pro , plz help me is there any site can be useful for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dady's little girl +, writes (21 November 2010):
Dady's little girl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for every one that answered me your answers were really useful for me^_^
~sandra~
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 First, sex is not always a disappointment the first time, so don't be nervous. Congratulations on your up and coming wedding!! It's awesome that you waited until marriage, I wish I would have done that.
You and your husband's consummation of your marriage and of your love for each other the first time is about exploring each other and expressing your love of that other person.
Don't be so nervous, one of the great things about being with someone you love is that you have the rest of your lives to practice with each other and I'm sure your husband will be more than happy to oblige you in practicing. I'm also sure that your husband is ecstatic that you are experiencing your first time with him and he will guide you through everything. Talk to him and express your fears. I'm sure he will be more than willing to listen.
Good luck.
There are some sites that can guide you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): You know what? The first time is always a disappointment.:) i'm sorry to say, but sex is something you learn as the time passes! If your boyfriend is good with it, just ask him.
I guess this one is a pretty good site: http://www.rfsu.se/en/Engelska/ it'll provide you with most information. :)
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 It's perfectly normal to feel the way you do. Let your boyfriend (soon to be your husband) know of your fears. If he knows you've never had sex before then it will be very special for both of you when it happens. If he's the loving "husband" he should be then he will take charge and guide you ever step of the way.
~Eve~
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