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writes:My current boyfriend who I am seeing for 7 months now used to be my bestfriend. There is no secret he doesn't know especially about my ex who I have struggled so much to forget for almost a year.Anyway, he helped hasten my coping up with the break up which led us to a relationship. I love him now and I never regret accepting him as my bf. So last night, I was surprised that my ex was trying to call me several times. I will be lying if I say I wasn't tempted to receive the call but I realized that I love my current bf. Answering this call might make things complicated. So i just ignored it.However, I can't stand keeping it to myself. You know, it's the fact that my ex called and it's something unexpected of him to do. And i feel victorious that I have not been weak to give in. Now i feel I am really over him.Anyway, I want to share this to my current bf, he helped me make it through and it is because of him that I feel so much better and happier now. But the question is, do you think it is appropriate that I tell him or should I just keep it to myself. I really do want to tell him but is it proper as he is my bf now and will this hurt him?I need you advise dear aunts. Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): ~HONESTY, TRUST, RESPECT and LOYALTY~
Golden Rule: Inform your boyfriend IMMEDIATELY!
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 You didn't answer it so I don't see how this could hurt him. You stayed strong and ignored that loser. I'd tell him, and throw in a little something about how his love made you stronger or something like that. He'll love it :)
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